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    I need advice

    Ok I was out at a club for one of my friends birthdays I was not looking for girls at all. But near the end of the night this girl comes up and asks to sit down in the seat next to me so I say sure. I don't do this often out of rejection but I bought her a drink. We both have decided we don't know how the next part happened but we ended up dancing. But then I had to go check on one of my friends. I found him he was fine so decided to go up and see her again as soon as I was heading up to the dance floor she was right there getting ready to leave.So I asked for her number that night we talked from 2 in the morning till 6 in the morning. We took like a 2 day pause then started talking again every night for the past 3 weeks for hours. I really like this girl alot now but she lives in Ohio and I live in Pa. She is also attending school but I am sure she likes me too. I just don't understand why I am so crazy about her and if I will feel the same when we meet in person. I just need someone to talk too.

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    It sounds like you have great chemistry with her, and that's great. The long-distance thing is not so great. Think about how deeply you want to delve into the torture that is the long-distance relationship.
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    I know but I cant picture not having her in my life

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    hey if u love each other power to u and make the long distance work cuz I have never seen it work but if u can make it let us know to give hope to the hopeless!

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    Haul ass to ohio on the weekends, that's what I say

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    Ok it has just got alot worse we just got off the phone a little bit ago. Well I am starting to fall for her big time I knew she liked me but I thought for sure I was the only one who felt this way. On the phone she told me she needed to tell me something I said sure. She then went on to tell me her feelings for me and said she don't know how to take them because she should not feel this way. She said that she don't understand these feelings but really likes them. She also said she don't want to loose this I agreed. So know we both don't know if this happens alot or how to tell if this is real. I am curious to know too like I know its real but could it just be some weird crush? I have never hit it off with a girl like this and we both are educated I mean she is a psychology minor. I guess we are both baffled and could be falling madly in love.

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    it could be love,but the situation the two of you are in makes me really sad,i have been there before,i think that if you can find a way to see each other often,it could work,but if you are planning to get into a relationship by the phone and see her with months in between,then i suggest not to push through on this and just save each other from having to fall in and out of love.
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