My husband approached me tonight with me working FOR him. Weve talked about it in the past, but it was prevelant tonight. I know my Dr wont be practicing much longer but I had plans for another job. He proposes a great deal to me, but Im hesistant right away and tell him so. Driving to work together spending the day together and driving home and then the nights together. I dont like the idea already. Although the pay is great, the flip side to me is not a good outcome. But he thinks the opposite. It would be good for us. WHAT????
He knows Im looking to buy a new car, an Elantra. And he calls me later to suggest he'd pay for the difference to buy a nicer car. Because thats the car we'd use. UH the idea for me is to maintain my independance here and where does that go?
I truly believe this would be a HUGE mistake. What if things blow up at work? What if we do divorce and then what happens to MY car that I wanted????
Holy shit, my gut instinct and mind tell me NO WAY. I feel like he's trying to rope me in here and control me in some way. He poses it differently of course, but the way our relationship is right now I just dont feel this is a good idea?
I think you guys already know and will tell me DONT DO IT, just need some outside perspectives or affirmations that I what I feel is right?