Hi all.
Once again, I have returned to this forum for relationship support.
As a second year student, I'm realizing that my sexual urges are peaking... they are higher than they have ever been before.Even my professor told me that when he was this age at Dartmouth, all him and his buddies could think about were girls. Especially with the cut-throat academics... similar, if not greater than MIT... and high stress, I feel I need to find sexual relief.
With my last girlfriend, I actually wasn't into her sexually, and the relationship was completely emotional. Which was why it took me about 8 months, until the present, to really get over her.
Furthermore, myself has changed, in that I am actually ready/prepared to try sex. Or maybe its just that my physical urges have finally overcome my previously chastity beliefs.
I find that lust and the longing for a relationship is becoming a greater part of my life than it has ever been before, and if not starting to infringe on school performance.
I am almost convinced that I need to find a girlfriend this year, and have sex. The bodily urges are just... so high.
What have you done to control/handle this situation while you are in your sexual prime?