is she over me?

[hi2u]

ok this is a long story and dramatic...

i had big feelings for jessica and melissa liked me and asked me to prom and i said ok kindof not wanting to... and i kept chasing jessica hardcore while pissing on melissa(ditching her and such). then i quit liking jessica and started liking melissa again and we started going out. jessica moved shortly after and me and melissa have been going out for two months.

in the past month i told kristen i told her i didnt really like talking on the phone for 3 hours a day every day...
i asked a girl for her phone number and melissa couldve found out but i dont think so. the reason i asked for the phone number is that i just wanted to get to know the girl she was new in the city and didnt know any1. i nevr did anything because i didnt wanna hender me and melissa relationship.

melissa use to call me or text me all the time to see how i was doing but latly this week shes been different... she has a curfew of 7 on the weekdays so we really cant do anything on the weekdays because i have to work 5 nights a week and weekend nights we try to do something.
monday she went to a movie with the school that kindof pissed me off because i thought she was going with friends and two guys she just meet ( one is her best friends bf), she went because it was free because the school paid for every1. wednesday though she was out four wheeling with these two guys and her best friend, this was my day off though but she had church activities so i didnt bother to call her and ask to do anything... i texted her about 8pm that night and she said her day was "AMAZING!", then she said i should call her later and i said i might but i gots lots of homework. then this kindof pissed me off she said "i meant way later".

then last night she asked if i was mad at her and i lied and said no because i dont want to be to controlling or make her feel bad. then i texted her later that night at 10:30 and said good night. she texted 1 hour later and asked how my day was and what i was doing....

why the **** would it take 1 hour at that time of the night to respond?
i thought she had a ****en curfew and couldnt hang out that late( wouldnt she wouldnt wanna ****en hang out with me on my days off if she really like me?)
i still like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her but i dont wanna feel like this all the time... im going to talk to her later tonight but im depressed and pissed about this whole thing.ive never felt so bad in my life and i cant even cry...

ps. i lost two of my good friends so this girl wouldnt think they liked me or i liked them... then she goes and does this?

is she trying to make me jealous or what?

[vashti]

You are mad because you had to wait one hour for her to return your phone call?

You have too much time on your hands.

[hi2u]

did you read the whole thing? dont ****en piss me off anymore u dumbas sob. she usually goes to bed at 10:30 im worried shes cheating on me... why wouldnt she text me back within a hour if she was at home

[hi2u]

btw i go to school 8-3 the work 5-10 almost every day i only get friday nights and saturday nights off... once in awhile ill get a middle day off. i have alot of time on my hands?

[hi2u]

ur the one with 8000 posts...

[Charlie Boy II]

I reckon she took an hour cause she was busy sucking her four wheeling buddy's cock.

[Gigabitch]

I can't imagine anyone who would deserve being ignored more. Who the hell do you think you are? You treated Melissa like shit and now you're pitching this tantrum because she didn't call you back immediately? Jeeze! Maybe she was taking a shower or something!

You are unreasonable to the point of being ridiculous.

I can not imagine why anyone dates you at all. You're rude and obnoxious, and if you mouth off to Vashti like that again, you'll have everyone on this board ripping you to shreds.

[Moonchild]

As rude as you're being, I'll give this a shot.

melissa use to call me or text me all the time to see how i was doing but latly this week shes been different... she has a curfew of 7 on the weekdays so we really cant do anything on the weekdays because i have to work 5 nights a week and weekend nights we try to do something.

It's been two months. In that time, a school situation can greatly change. In my classes, for example, the professors are starting to assign papers and projects, so she could be busy with that sort of thing. Also, it would get kind of dull (for anyone) to have the same conversation every day for eight weeks, so she could also just be assuming she doesn't /have/ to text, because she knows how you are.

monday she went to a movie with the school that kindof pissed me off because i thought she was going with friends and two guys she just meet ( one is her best friends bf), she went because it was free because the school paid for every1.

Did she go with the school and with these same people (same school, paying for all?) If not, did she tell you specifically that those were the conditions for her going? If she lied, that's one thing. If she did something you didn't expect, then it's an honest mistake and there's nothing to be upset about. And it's a school trip. It'd be completely different if she actually went with people she never told you about.

wednesday though she was out four wheeling with these two guys and her best friend, this was my day off though but she had church activities so i didnt bother to call her and ask to do anything... i texted her about 8pm that night and she said her day was "AMAZING!", then she said i should call her later and i said i might but i gots lots of homework. then this kindof pissed me off she said "i meant way later".

Way later could mean two things. One, that she was trying to cater for you, saying essentially that you could call when your homework's done. Two, that she has something else to do as well, and calling "way later" would be most convenient for her, too. But I'm leaning toward the first one--it was an invitation to call her later than usual.

why the **** would it take 1 hour at that time of the night to respond?
i thought she had a ****en curfew and couldnt hang out that late( wouldnt she wouldnt wanna ****en hang out with me on my days off if she really like me?)

You're overreacting. With cell phones especially, there are ways to get around parents. My sister's curfew on the weeknights is 10.00, so she can't hang out with anyone after that, of course. But that doesn't stop her from taking her cell phone to her room and talking to people until one in the morning. So the answer is no, she /can't/ hang out that late. But she still has access to her phone, at least this time. Most kids don't actually go to sleep when their curfew is. And for a 7.00 one, it seems more of the "stay in the house" type than the sleep type--perhaps she has a different time at which she has to be asleep? And there are a million reasons she wouldn't be able to get back to you for an hour. She could have been eating, taking a shower, eating and then taking a shower, doing homework, talking to someone else on the phone (since you are not her entire life), talking with her parents... I could go on and on. The normal activities of a teenage girl usually extend beyond sitting around, waiting for a single text message from a single person.

i still like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her but i dont wanna feel like this all the time... im going to talk to her later tonight but im depressed and pissed about this whole thing.ive never felt so bad in my life and i cant even cry...

ps. i lost two of my good friends so this girl wouldnt think they liked me or i liked them... then she goes and does this?

is she trying to make me jealous or what?

I repeat. You're overreacting. And if you're going to be jealous about every person she interacts with who is not you, then you should do her a favor and get out of her life. Every person on this board is going to say that you're in the wrong, because you simply need to calm down, stop panicking, and think. She's not doing anything that would make most people even think twice. She's being herself. Either live with it, or try to find someone emotionally unstable enough to make you her entire life--and that would just bring other problems, I expect. In the words of a very wonderful text...

Don't panic.

[Gigabitch]

That was really nice, Moonchild. I hope he thanks you, because nobody else is going to have the patience for him.

[Moonchild]

Oh, it doesn't matter if he does or not. Even if he reads it and never comes back, it matters most that there's a chance he'll get something from it.