I just found out my b/f cheated on me with an ex-g/f via email months ago to the point they were talking about buying a home together someday. He told me it's over with her and it was just infatuation but I'm not sure I believe him. I know her email address and would like to contact her myself in a non-defensive way just asking if it really is over. She does know about me based on the emails. He told me if I ever contact her he will end our relationship.
WTF???? That seems a little over-the-top to me!
Anyone else??