Originally Posted by
yppiZ
All my depression was fueled to it's maximum threshold when I found out a girl I liked very much happens to be going with my best friend now, even until this day this bugs the shit out of me and I can't get over my obsession with this woman.
Well, you'll be more than happy to know that we were on the same boat... once upon a time..
I'm not sh*tting you.. read some of my posts.. I met this girl, wanted to ask her out.. TOLD my best friend about it.. and be4 I could see her again in class and had the chance to speak to her.. my best friend told me that HE ASKED HER OUT.. (while I was taking him fishing.. on my boat!)
But.. it's ok.. because if history is bound to repeat itself.. your best friend will not be treating her too well.. and in about 1.5-2.5 years.. she's going to leave him.. and you're going to be next to her.. and eventually.. if a new relationship doesn't form.. at least you'll have great sex..
But.. again, I digress.. although back then she was all I could think about.. I realize NOW.. at my current level in life.. how incompatable the two of us would have been in the long-run.. Now, it's not one of those things i'm asking you to think about.. only because "love is blind" and it does cloud the mind from seeing the truth.. so it's not something you would be able to see at this point.. but keep in mind for years down the line.. when you think back to her.. You'll realize how happy you would have been THEN.. but how unhappy you would be NOW (years down the line) if you would still be with her..
Anyway.. no more fooling around for me.. have to study for M&A.. I must be feeling awfully cocky to not be studying all this time..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.