So me and my gf of 2 years broke up 5 days ago. It was on fairly good terms, but very emotional and hard. She broke up with me because i had trust issues. I loved her, but would always worry about where she was and who she was with. She said she couldn't deal with it. So we break up, but we still talk and hung out a few times. Felt as if we were going to get back together, so i brought it up. she said she didn't know and that she was confused. And then today, she finally gave me 2 options. That if i'm willing, to give her a week to think things through, or not wait and move on.
I told her i would wait and also think things through too. I know in my heart she loves me and i love her and were both hurting from this. I know shes hurting, she tells me. she also tells me that she loves me more now then she ever did.
So i guess my question is, do relationships that go through a split like this work? My heart tells me i want to be with her. But i'm a little worried on it not working and being heart broken 2nd time around, which would hurt so much more.
when do you know that its time to move on?