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[Chris660]

Ever have a relationship where things were awesome one week, then something stupid happens and things are horrible the next. How often can this happen before things come to a close.

I've been seeing this girl for about 4 years now. Things are usually good, but it seems like every little thing i do really pisses her off now where it didn't in the past.

We argue about it, she ends up bashing me, but whenever I bring up a relevant point about something that she did....all of a sudden it's "I don't want to talk about this anymore" "I have a headache" "I have other stuff to worry about"

then things will clear up and be good for about a month then something stupid will start this all over again.

How can this exist in a healthy relationship?

[xmoongirlx]

It's not healthy at ALL!

She's gonna drive you crazy...It must be hard for you.

Communication is KEY, and it seems she doesn't like to talk about things, that's really bad, you should always be able to tell your significant other things that bother you!

After reading this and your other post, I believe your going trough a hard time now, wondering WHY is this happening now?

Well remember people start showing their true colors in time! And after 4 years of being together you probably don't know her how you thought u did.

My advice-TALK to her, sit her down, tie her up jk LOL, do whatever you have to do and tell her how you're feeling and what can u both do to make things better and not fight so much! It will surely work =)

Good Luck