Ok I'm sorry if I ramble on here but I am sooo confused. Anyway here goes....
Nearly 4 months ago I invited an old friend out for a night out with some of my friends. She came and bought 2 of her friends, both male, one gay, one straight.
Anyway we all had a really good night and it was blatently obviously that they were trying to set me and the straight guy up but I hate this so I just ignored him for most of the night.
I was walking home and I got text message from him saying that he thought I was really attractive and stuff and we started texting each other on a regular basis.
He kept asking to meet up with me and I eventually plucked up the courage and invited him out with a bunch of my friends. He was obviously really nervous and so was I but by the end of the evening we were getting on fine.
He would then regularly come over to mine for a night of take aways and dvds which I really enjoyed as we get on really well and we then started sleeping with each other.
All this time he was sending me really sweet texts and if I didn't see him for a while then I would really miss him but lately he's changed.
He rarely says nice thing to me anymore but isn't unpleasant. I also haven't seen him a lot and I know I am partly to blame for this as I've been quite busy. He has made an effort to come and see me but not as much as I would like.
Now I'm not making excuses for him but he hates living at home and he has a stressful job so I know that these both put him in a bad mood but I really wish I knew where I stood with him!
I have told him via text that I am really starting to like him and that if he isn't happy with this then let me know but he never replies so I really don't know where I stand.
I speak to him everyday and yet I am so in the dark about how he feels about me. I know no-one here is him so can't possibly know what he is thinking but if anyone has any ideas then I would love to know!
And before people start saying that he was using me for sex then this isn't true. I know that he enjoys my company as he has told me that.
Please help me!