GIRLS help me out... :)

**Drogba88** · 27-12-07, 04:11 AM

Hi... first THANKS for your HELP
this is the first part of story [url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/19840-i-want-your-opinion-advice.html[/url]
when you read that here is the second part...
after that story I send her this message before month and half:"I cant stop thinking about you...Are you still thinking about me?" she did not answer...i talked to her in thursday night after 3 months...i wait for her in front of her building and that was unexpected surprise.....i asked her if she got last message...she did not get the last message...
then she said that i always pick a bad time...
then i show her last message from my mobile phone and asked her would she answer...she said maybe...(since we started to talk in 5.month she is always saying maybe... in sweet mysterious way.. )when i asked her where are we now...what we are now...she said i dont know..am i in her plans...she said maybe...then she said that she is with one guy from school who is now important to her...they were together 2 times...when i asked her was i important to her...she said maybe...and then i asked her to give me her hand...she said no...and then she said i have to go home...first i didnot let her...(not VIOLENT!)..she told me that she will get angry at me..then after sometime i let her go and when she was entering door i asked her did i deserve that you behave like this to me?she was then sad and upset...i could see on her face...
then i went home....
and 2 hours later i got message from her,from her"s mom mobile phone(she did not have money on her own):"Sorry for this today..." i did not answer....
I call her next night...(saturday)
and she answer and said that she was in bus...
i asked here when will she come...she said i dont know...i ask her again...she answer i dont know and said why...
i ask her again and she said i dont know...and she hang up...
I saw her 5min later with some boy...she was leaving bus and going home...in tuesday was Christmas and she send me message..."Merry Christmas.Lot of happines,health and love and that everything you wish come true..." (but she didnot apologise for hanging me up phone which i told you)i did not answer to that message...
You have to one more thing,we never kissed each other...we were close but...she started the whole thing which you know if you read the first part of story...
what should i do...???
does she care???how much???
THANKS

**TheSphinx** · 27-12-07, 01:54 PM

Ah! This looks like GrkScorp-style text!

From what I could make out, the girl's not into you.

Try seeing some other girls and you'll suddenly see her "maybe" become a "yes" or "no."

~Sphinx

**Drogba88** · 27-12-07, 10:34 PM

THIS IS NEW what happened
yesterday she send me "are you angry on your friend??"
i did not answer...
What should i do now...

**vashti** · 27-12-07, 10:38 PM

I think you need to work on building your confidence in handling these situations on your own. What do you WANT to do?

**Drogba88** · 28-12-07, 04:48 AM

I WANT to do best for her and me...
and if i ask you to help me...because you are women and you understand her thinking better than me...so VASHTI if you want to HELP THANKS if not okay...
thats it...

**vashti** · 28-12-07, 06:37 AM

No, my friend. You don't seem to understand. You have sent me 1000 PMs asking for my advice, and I am trying to tell you that you certainly must have some of your own instincts about this relationship. What do YOU think about what she is saying/doing? I bet you know more than you think.

**Drogba88** · 28-12-07, 06:46 AM

VASHTI i think that this is very complicated relationship...and i dont know where i am with her...so i WANT some female advices and opinions...if you want to share it with me...i am here..if not..thanks anyway...

**Gigabitch** · 28-12-07, 06:57 AM

My advice is to FIND OUT where you are with her. Nobody here knows. Call her up.

**TheSphinx** · 28-12-07, 06:58 AM

Like Vashti has said, use your instincts and follow them, see what happens and learn from the results. The more you attempt and learn from the results of your attempts, the better you'll be able to handle these situations on your own. Delaying until you have "the best" course of action suggested to you will only hinder your growth in the end.

~Sphinx

**Drogba88** · 28-12-07, 07:50 AM

I know and use my instinct but NOW i want to hear FEMALE EXPERT opinions and advices...just tell me...help me...THANKS

**Gigabitch** · 28-12-07, 08:40 AM

Ask your mom.

**Drogba88** · 28-12-07, 08:45 AM

Giga...what do you think...what kind of hate is that...i wrote it in my last PM to you...

**Gigabitch** · 28-12-07, 10:06 AM

Originally Posted by Drogba88

Giga...what do you think...what kind of hate is that...i wrote it in my last PM to you...

She'll hate you if you don't return her message soon because it's humiliating. She'll take a picture of you and Photoshop devil horns onto it.

I know. I've done this in the past.

**Drogba88** · 29-12-07, 07:37 AM

Maybe she will hate me but in no really bad way...but what kind is her behavior to me...I just dont know where we are....

**Drogba88** · 29-12-07, 10:05 AM

I answered her tonight...i met her...she was with her parents..she just smiled and say hello...and went home..after 10min i went home...and send her this.. " Friend maybe i am angry but i dont know what more(else) to say about this our "frienship"...what do you think? "

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