Just wondered how many of you are friends with your ex or think it's poosible to be friends with your ex?
I broke up with my ex just over a year ago and am going out with someone new now (and it's great), but I can't help but feel like you have lost a part of your history (someone who knew you so well at the time for a number of years). I talked to him online the other day and he asked me whether I was going out with someone new and told me he was going out with someone new too. Left me with a really strange feeling. I know I was the one who broke up with him, because it wasn't working anymore and I didn't feel the same. I said I was glad he could be so honest with me (he said this relationship was not (yet) where we were) and I said I hoped we could be good friends at some point in the future. He said that we were never friends to start off with, but wanted to be on good terms. Sounded quite bitter... and which annoyed me somewhat.
I know a friend of mine who is good mates with his exes. Perhaps there's still a lot of bitterness there for me breaking up with him and it needs time. This is why I haven't really been in touch this year, I wanted to give him time and I have always been pleasant to him.
Do you think I should even bother being friends/ wait or just move on?