
Originally Posted by
Frasbee
We both decided, (or rather I decided, and she agreed), that we're going to steer clear of intercourse, regardless of protection. For now. I'd just rather not have the worry at all.
However.
As some of you know, I've been goin' down on Amy for a while now, and just recently I've managed to give her orgasms. Even more recent that she started jerkin' me off, and starting this weekend, going down on me.
The jerkin' hasn't been that great, especially considering we haven't invested in lube yet. I've discovered it's difficult for another person to jerk me off dry, as successfully as myself.
Just the other day she went down on me, but I didn't manage to cum, so I ended up finishing it off myself. Then the night after, she was determined to get me to climax. She was probably at it for 20 minutes (with breaks), and it wasn't until the last second that I was starting to come that she gave up in frustration, and telling me to "finish it off yourself". I told her to stop because I was about to bust, 'cause she said she wasn't comfortable yet with me ejaculating in her mouth. She thought I meant "stop" because she wasn't getting anywhere.
You're the guy, you should be easy!
She's frustrated and upset that she can't pleasure me the same way, and as frequently, as I please her. It frustrates me that she feels that way. We're both new at this, so we're still figuring out what works and what doesn't, and her technique isn't the best but she's getting better.
Thing is, oral doesn't seem to get me off that quickly. I've tried everything, relaxing, tensing. It sucks, because she did something towards the end that almost set me off. Maybe oral isn't my thing (apparently), but I'm thinking maybe I got desensitized after cumming 4 times in 3 days. (This is new to me too.)
Man, I can see how having sex with new, unexperienced partners could be so frustrating. Virgins don't know their bodies enough. Patience, patience, patience.