I'm 31 yrs old Aries and my girlfriend is 26 yrs old pisces. We got to know each other 5 months ago and were really attached to each other with love at first sight. We got together just 5 days after knowing each other and were intensely in love. Then we went for a 2 weeks trip and were enjoying everyday together. But after the trip, we both gone back to work and still contact each other. As time passes, she seems to be more distant to me. She doesn't take my call nor return my sms. I really don't know what's going on but I know she is afraid to put her heart into this relationship as she was deeply hurt 2 times in the past. Then she finally took my call on xmas eve and we met up. We were both shy and didn't know what to say just like when we first met each other. There wasn't any discussion about our relationship. Since then she started picking up my call and was as sweet as I first knew her. Just called her yest and she was in another country with her "friends"! How should I feel now?
I really don't know how i should feel. Our last few conversation seemed like a friend talk. Is that better for her as she feels no pressure talking to me as a friend? But I love her and she knows it. I don't know if I should be optimistic or pessimistic about this but I know i have put in my heart into this relationship and hope that it would work out for us. Should I just take things slowly or at least ask how she feels about me so that I have an answer in mind. I'm just afraid this may give her pressure and end up going separate ways.
Would any pisces lady tell me is it normal to go on a trip with your friends (could be all guys or mixture of guys and girls) without informing your bf? And is she treating more like a friend than a bf now or is she trying to break up with me? I can't really figure out what she's thinking and hopefully someone will explain to me. Any advice from pisces lady would greatly be appreciated.
Any pisces lady please help me out with this. I'm really feeling down and lost. When i put my heart into a relationship, it's tough for me to get over it. What should i do now?