Originally Posted by
GrkScorp
hahahaha... some women man and thier tactics..
I hope you're not seriously falling for this.. that's not a REAL new years resolution.. she wants sex, more than YOU do buddy.. that's such an obvious cry out for you to marry her..
If I were you, i'd just let her know "my" new years resolution (was to get married to you by the end of this year).. but ever since I herd your new year's resolution (I don't think I want to get married to someone like that).. so "my" NEW resolution (is to have sex this year, even if my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex; just because SHE doesn't want to have sex, doesn't mean I don't want to have sex, and it doesn't mean i'm going to stop having sex, maybe i'm not going to have sex with HER, but i'm still going to have sex)
And on that note.. tell her, "ever since you told me about your new year's resolution, I realized you're not the kind of person I thought you were; and I simply can't marry someone like you, so since this relationship isn't heading towards marriage, there's no point in us being together.. don't get me wrong, I love my child, my child has done nothing wrong, I just don't love you, not after what you said.. goodbye, there's nothing left to say between us"
BAM! nice, simple, quick, counter-bull-sh*t..
Want to tell her you mean business? Go over to Chios one day; go into a woman's store.. spray some purfume (strong purfume) on your shirt, on your crotch, on your cheek, don't over-do it.. go talk to one of the ladies there and tell them you're looking to buy some lipstick for your wife; you want to suprise her (they want to sell you stuff), so just ask for what the "hottest color" is right now.. and they'll give it to you.. buy it.. smudge just a little over your lip (either top or bottom; preferably bottom/side "the end of your lips".. and then go back home..
She'll think you actually cheated.. and you'll act like nothing happened.. in fact.. if she asks you what happened; you should just tell her "nothing".. deny it.. the more you deny it.. the more she'll think you seriously went with another woman.. or women! and POOF.. her perceived sexual power over you is gone.. now she'll be lost.. she'll think to herself "fcuk; I have no sexual control over him, he can easily get other women to sleep with him, and now he's going to break things off and leave, and i'm going to be stuck with this kid, I fcuked things up bigtime with by bullsh*t.. what do I do?"
Let her ponder this a couple of times as you keep going to Chios or to slightly distant places to keep doing "nothing".. (just remember to toss out any lipstick you have on your, or receipts, etc.. she'll be searching.. buy condoms.. lots and lots of condoms!! and start taking them with you.. fill your pockets with them.. and as you come home every night.. throw 1-2 of them in the trash before you get home..
It'll finally hit her.. "I better cut this bullsh*t out and say sorry.. I don't want him to leave me and live a man's life having to do actual work to provide for my family.. it's much easier to just have sex with him and b*tch at him occassionally so he can do that man stuff.."
After she comes to her senses; she's going to want to know what you were doing, she'll try desperately to make you say it.. she'll first try to force you, then she'll make you feel like it doesn't matter to her anymore.. just stick with your story "nothing".. until she stops asking.. if you let her know what ACTUALLY happened; she'll never take your threats seriously in the future; and CREDIBILITY is a valuable tool.. so don't lose it.. it sounds to me like you're going to need it in the future..