Quick Question Ladies

**aj007** · 16-01-08, 06:14 AM

first off please respond to my topic my girlfriend all of a sudden says she doesn't love me anymore..i really need your ladies opinion.

now on to this questions..

when she was my girlfriend before I left home from seeing her in vegas, we were in bed and she said very seriously "if you decide to sleep with another girl make sure to use a condom and to tell me" I will love you regardless but I want you to be honest with me."

I never cheated on her but I found this to be a really weird comment..

Ladies why would she tell me this..What kind of message would she be trying to send me?

Thoughts

**Junket** · 16-01-08, 06:33 AM

Maybe she simply doesn't love you anymore?

It happens man.

But unless she has specific reasons for it, that you're not telling us, or are unaware of...we can't really help you there.

**aj007** · 16-01-08, 07:05 AM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

Maybe she simply doesn't love you anymore?

It happens man.

But unless she has specific reasons for it, that you're not telling us, or are unaware of...we can't really help you there.

i have that whole story in another thread on this page please take a look at it...you will see it is very strange..

**Gigabitch** · 17-01-08, 01:06 AM

Oh, it's just another drop in the weirdness bucket.

She's freaking out. She'll pull it together.

**Mathias** · 17-01-08, 01:56 AM

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Oh, it's just another drop in the weirdness bucket.

She's freaking out. She'll pull it together.

I agreed with you until the last sentence.

**Michael6084** · 17-01-08, 02:12 AM

Maybe it's past experiences with ex-boyfriends that she seems to think you'd do the same? She could be seeing this as a same experience with a past BF, but instead wants to prevent a break-up.

Either way, it's ****ed up.

**Te Amo** · 17-01-08, 11:59 AM

I think she is guilty about something, and def doesnt love you because no matter what a girl says, she would care if you slept with another woman. but thats just my opinion

**bloodtippedrose** · 17-01-08, 01:30 PM

I see it as her saying that she wants to see other people and wants it to be okay with you if she does. If she told you out of the blue she doesnt love you anymore then she wants a harsh reaction so the two of you will break but she doesnt have to do the dirty work of breaking it herself. Its a guess, but it really sounds like shes interested in someone else.

**Gigabitch** · 18-01-08, 12:01 AM

I disagree. It sounds like a pathetic plea for reassurance to me.

**lastwish** · 18-01-08, 06:41 AM

perhaps she is telling you that she wouldn't mind if you got on with another girl cuz she is getting on with another guy or thinking of it. When a girl is devoted she has possesive tendencies and wouldn't mention a word about you getting on with another girl.

**undetected** · 20-01-08, 12:35 AM

She's either asking you to make her feel more secure by assuring her that you will be monogamous and checking if it's a mutual agreement or if you are just "loving the one you're with."

**Gigabitch** · 20-01-08, 05:53 AM

Update, please! You saw her yesterday...

what happened?

**aj007** · 21-01-08, 02:34 AM

gigabitch..i appreciate you have been cool about your advice..i definitely have news tot ell you about yesterday

**aj007** · 23-01-08, 03:44 AM

Originally Posted by aj007

gigabitch..i appreciate you have been cool about your advice..i definitely have news tot ell you about yesterday

gigabitch i added you to my aim..i have news regarding her coming over on saturday..i want to tell you what..i really respect your opinion on things...please get back to me..my aim is alucero007

**miSSleepy** · 23-01-08, 03:58 AM

Maybe she expects you to sleep with another woman ... *shrug*

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