invisible problems?
1st of all, i would like to thank u guys in advance.
Here a brief detail, i've been dating this girl for abt 5 mths. I'm 30 and she's 22. The 1st 3 mths feels like heaven and i'm so convinced she's definately the 1. Then came the stupid move, i move into her house stay with her family whenever i visit/go her hometown. (i live abt 2 hours away, and i went to her hometown for business, and thats how i get to know her too previously i stayed in hotel). Since then she start to change, i no longer feel the heavenly feeling, and sometimes she would just go silence. I found that we hardly have the topic to talk and laughter hard to come by.
So recently, i confront her about this issue. She said there's a lot of problem arise. She got this pressure whenever i'm around. I finally made her say out the problem. Indeed there are plenty. And she also not sure whether she still love me...
The problem arise i believe can be settle with given time. And i will move back to hotel. I know i still love her very much but i'm very uncertain about future.
Here comes my big question.
How or is there a posibility for thing to return like the way it was. Are there any member here encountered this kind of issue, i need some kind of enlightenment.
It’s hard to find someone whom u truly love, much less to find someone who loves u as much.
When the chance comes, don't ever let go.