Originally Posted by
Drogba88
i havenot heard today with her...
should i wait her to send message...or should i send(and what) or call her..??
why did she mentioned her boyfriend at last message...?
Most likely the case, and I know this is going to zoom in from one ear and out the other but i'll still say it, she's not interested in you that strongly any more..
The best advice I can give you is.. for the moment.. leave her alone romantically.. move on to other people.. and come back to her later.. (she will forget or weaken those bad emotions/feelings she feels towards you such as pushy-ness, awkwardness)
Then, there are no magic words or lines or stories that you will tell her that will make her fall in love with you.. That's not going to happen.. if some Voodoo guy tells you it can, and you test it and it works.. (PM me.. then maybe i'll consider writing a book.. right after I marry Alessandra Ambrosio)
With that being said.. just call her up.. if you can call her.. CALL HER.. and TALK.. about what? ANYTHING! Honestly.. learn to have some moxie.. but if conversation isn't natural for you.. write down some "talking points" which are like "ideas"/"topics" that you'd think would be fun, interesting, funny, etc to talk about.. And just TALK.. forget e-mail.. forget text.. forget little messages.. when I want to see if I really connect with someone.. I want to hear their voice.. and i'm sure she feels the same way.. the voice is powerful.. because it's MORE of YOU than text-only is..
So if you have the chance to talk.. TALK.. because if you text.. it doesn't matter what you say.. because the fact that you texted instead of called alone shows "I'm too much of a wussy to call you".. and that's NOT attractive.. for either gender..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.