Hi All,
I posted a thread here a couple of months back. About how i had a bf who got married 3 weeks after we broke up.
Well, it's been 8 months since we broke up and 5 months since i found out the ugly truth.
Since then, i've been trying my very best to move on. At times i feel i am moving on, at some other times, i still do get reminded of the hurt that i am still feeling.
A new guy has since entered my life (i hope it's not too fast). I actually met him 2 years ago, and fate has it, we met up again, only this time, things got friendlier.
I am still very afraid to be with any guy, even if it's just as friends. I've turned down dates from this guy many times yet he's still trying. Out of the many times, i only went out with him 3x.
Why is it that i cant forget abt the past and move on? Why is the hatred and pain still there? It's making it so hard for me to know this new guy better.
I hope i am not talking nonsense here and would appreciate it if i can get any kind of advise.
Thanks.