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How long have you been separated?
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein
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Be glad you found out what kind of woman she is now instead of after walking down the aisle. You're lucky. This could have been a whole helluva lot worse.
See. Every cloud has its silver lining.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein
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Last edited by Tommy; 19-03-08 at 05:52 AM.
Oh wow, I know how this feels.
Just think of it as a catastrophe averted. Be thankful. As much as it may piss you off, don't let it, because then she's winning. The best revenge you can have on a person that hurts you, is to be happy, successful, and forgiving. That pisses them off more than anything, trust me.
Get rid of any shit you have that belongs to her. Maybe the move is a good idea - fresh starts can work wonders. I did that when I left my ex husband, and it was such a positive change.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
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Dude. Break up = she's not yours. Get all reminders of her out of your life and close all doors.
How did you find out about the "boy toy"? However this happened, you need to make sure it doesn't happen again. You're not still in contact with her, are you? If so, cut her off.
Tell everyone you know not to mention her.
Don't look at her MySpace page.
You've got to give yourself a chance here, Tommy.
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Honestly, do yourself a favor and throw them out. It's just negative energy. You have enough 'reminders' in your head. You don't need to keep them in a box so you can peek in now and again to fuel your hurt and anger.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
I say keep a few and toss the rest. Send the few to your mom's house or something, so you'll have them when you're 70 and want to reminisce (yes, you'll be over this by then, completely), but don't keep them around where you'll be tempted to pull them out and fume about it.
I think you should stay off the social networking sites altogether for a while. It's like putting up weatherstripping to keep out the cold- even a crack makes a difference.
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this is the 2nd break up story, where the guy heads to arizona?
whats with arizona?
Gee..I thought I saw a pussycat. ~PCD
Same guy, and I think he wants to go to Arizona to escape the madness that is daylight savings time.
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