Does he like me?

[BurtsBees19]

Recently, I met this amazing guy in my class this past semester. I approached him one day to say hi in the hall, and we talked (small talk). As SOON as the class ended, he drove home and searched for me on facebook to add me as a friend. He apologized for it seeming stalkerish, but obviously I did not think it was. I gave him my screen name and I told him to i-m me if he wanted. He said he certainly would and he did later that day. I invited him to have lunch with my friends once a week and he came, and has been coming ever since. He has made me a CD. And one day after class ended, he went home and immediately sent me a message saying 'i forgot to mention I really liked your shirt today. It was neat' Now yes - it was a cool shirt. One he would like. I asked him if he would want to hang out over a break we had, and he said he definitely would. We saw a movie and had a fun time. This past week, another boy walked me to my car and flirted with me a lot and I think that made this shy guy upset, because later online when I asked him how his day was, he said he went to the mall and this cute girl tried to get him to buy hand lotion and she told him he had beautiful eyes, but he didn't buy the lotion.

p.s - if you haven't already figured it out, he's very shy

I don't know. What do you guys think? Thank you for responding!

[GrkScorp]

This past week, another boy walked me to my car and flirted with me a lot and I think that made this shy guy upset, because later online when I asked him how his day was, he said he went to the mall and this cute girl tried to get him to buy hand lotion and she told him he had beautiful eyes, but he didn't buy the lotion.

Oh gosh.. look.. before you just fix this situation now.., before it's too late.. keep in mind that it's not worth letting this whole drama play out.. especially since you like him..

Just TALK to him.. (not facebook, not text, not e-mail).. but TALKING.. to him.. about that whole thing.. and how this other guy means nothing to you.. how he just flirts.. but you don't like guys like him.. (to communicate to him rather directly that this other guy isn't an issue)..

Then.. quit dilly-dally-ing with this shy guy.. and tell him.. "I really like you.. and I know you feel the same way.. and I just want to know when you're waiting to tell me how you feel.. so we don't have to hold back anymore; and just be perfectly honest and open with eachother".. Yes, I know.. but someone has to be the man in this relationship.. at least at this point.. so there can actually be a relationship..

There's no need to make this other guy into some issue.. and you should just ignore the other things he told you in response to that.. (that's just venting on his part.. he felt bad when he saw that other guy, and he's venting by trying to get you to feel how he felt when he saw that other guy with you.. that's all it is.. don't look deeper into it.. no.. stop being a girl.. there's nothing romantic or cute about it.. just put an end to it, and go on with doing whatever it is you want to do with the guy you're interested in)

Best,

GrkScorp

[Gigabitch]

YES, he likes you.

[BurtsBees19]

I talked to him a little bit (the day he told me about the cute girl at the mall) to tell him that this other guy is "not on my good side" and that he is. He knocked the other guy a little, so that makes me feel like he really was jealous.

[BurtsBees19]

YES, he likes you.

that makes me happy

[GrkScorp]

He knocked the other guy a little, so that makes me feel like he really was jealous.

I bet you were feeling all warm inside and got really happy when that happened.. aww



Please tell me your going to put an end to this drama and start the relationship with Mr. Shy-guy already..