i want love.... question to every 1 in love

[loopy lou]

when i was a kid i used to dream of finding someone special to love and be loved by, now ive grown up, had relationships, has my heart broken, broken a couple of hearts (not intentionally) had flings, hot sex and crushes but still cant seem to find my special someone. Sometimes it just seems like it;ll nevr happen,

so this is my question to all of u people who have found true love...

do u have to look for it or does it come to u?

how did u find ur special some one?

[Gigabitch]

I wasn't expecting it at all. Wasn't ready for it, wasn't open to it. It hit me like a freight train. I actually ran away from him, it was so intense.

I don't think it happens to everyone, but it does happen.

[bluesummer]

^ Ditto, except for the running away part. I defnitely didn't see it coming.

I was actually at a point where I felt like giving up, myself. I was so jaded with men and relationships and had resigned myself to being a crazy cat lady. Then my bf showed up and changed everything.

Your turn will come too, when you're least expecting it.

[Whisteria]

i would say you have to wait for it i mean like looking for it is just almost impossible? really depends on yourself whether you think the person matches you or not. For me that person hasn't come yet or i haven't found her although i still wait and look for her.

[Mish]

do u have to look for it or does it come to u?

how did u find ur special some one?

Be realistic, look at it from a logical point of view. What's love? Chemical reactions inside your body, generated through familiarity and trust, driven by mechanisms we call passion, intimacy, commitment and of course the genes. Love is not complicated. It's all really about just finding the compatible person and to do that you just have to go out looking and looking and looking. And, you DO need to know what the compatible person is like, but for that you need to know yourself and that's a whole different story.

Sometimes being honest with yourself, what kind of a creature you really are, is one of the most difficult things to admit and acknowledge.

[pythongrace]

What do you mean when you say let 'love comes to you?' Do you mean that you let someone approach you? Instead of you approaching them?

[Cain]

I wasn't expecting it at all. Wasn't ready for it, wasn't open to it. It hit me like a freight train. I actually ran away from him, it was so intense.

I don't think it happens to everyone, but it does happen.

It happened to me as well, though I wasn't the one running. You're quite aware of how my story went, Giga.

True love will stick through anything. I truly believe that in your lifetime.. in everyone's lifetime.. they will run into the one girl that truly is "the one" for them. Whether you recognize it or not is up to you.

Always keep your eyes open.

[Tedel]

Friendship is the school of love.

Have many friends so you can see what you like and what you don't in a person of the opposite sex. Most people go from a relationship to another but they don't think about having any new friends. Bad choice.

Be honest with your partners all the time, you will reap what you sow.

Forget the whole issue for a while. The world won't freeze to give you true love just because you are willing to find one.

On the contrary, use this time to have a better life as this will also make you more attractive.

Hope this helps.

[Trickee]

never go looking for love. people always try that thinking they will find it. they don't. it will always come when you aren't looking for it, when you're not ready for it and especially when you've been in love and don't want to be in love again.

me and my boyfriend met at a party. he tried hooking up with me for about two months but i always blew him off thinking he was just another player bouncing around parties. plus i thought that if i hooked up with him it'd just be a fling. turns out he kept trying to get at me so i decided to give him a chance. i've always found him adorable but wasn't much my type at the same time. next thing you know we fell in love and have been going strong for more than a year.

like everyone else has said, love comes at you when you least expect it.

[Tiay]

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