first kiss...did i mess it up??

[confuzzled12]

ok so me and my bf went out on a date last night and it was prolly one of the most romantic dates ive ever been on. we went out to dinner then walked around on the wharf, then got ice cream, and walked around the park and such. there was lots of hand holdng and it just felt great.

anywho we went over to some bacci ball courts (its an italian game...kinda like bowling). he was telling me how bacci was italian for kiss and we kinda sat there holding hands. then it got to cuddling and then we just kissed. however i had a vibe the first time that i wasnt doingi t right (i had never kissed before) so i kinda playfully giggled and pulled back some and told him that i kinda wanted to take it a lil slow. then we just kinda cuddled some more and i was "ok more bacci". so we got back to kissing and kinda ended up making out and when we finished we were talking and he told me how he had only kissed a couple times before (i thought he had never kissed before) and i told him it was my first time and he was like "yea i kinda figured that" but i kinda took it as "oh god did i suck or something?"

idk. thats not something i shud worry about right? is it possible to mess up ur first kiss? im feeling a lil embarrassed right now.

[lastwish]

maybe its not because you are a bad kisser but you revealed to him when you told him you want to take it slow. I think everyone is natural at kissing. When I first had my kiss, my ex boyfriend actually thought I was experienced. But I wasn't...its just instinctive.

[boobaa]

I messed up my first real kiss also, even I am a boy... But, I can assure you it is not a problem if you messed up, he will kiss you again and again if he likes you, which I believe he does.

[bluesummer]

You'll get better with practice.

[1averagejoe]

If he likes you he won't care how bad you kiss. I wouldn't, don't stress over it. You've got to start somewhere, practice makes perfect.

[bohemiandonut]

You sound cute as hell.

[DharmicLove]

Aww girl, you do sound so cute. You didnt mess up, it was your first time.

Can we get an update??

[Gigabitch]

That is adorable. Don't worry- I'm sure he's flattered.

[1averagejoe]

I missed on my first kiss...

[boobaa]

Missed, hahah. What, you put your lips forward and hit her breasts or something? lol.

[confuzzled12]

well he sent me a lil text today saying that he really had a good time that night
so i think everythings cool. thanks for ur advice. i have a random Q though... "what goes through a guy's mind while he's making out?"

[boobaa]

That I want to eat her.

[1averagejoe]

Missed, hahah. What, you put your lips forward and hit her breasts or something? lol.

I actually kissed her upper lip on the side...ya bad aim lol. the breasts came later.

well he sent me a lil text today saying that he really had a good time that night
so i think everythings cool. thanks for ur advice. i have a random Q though... "what goes through a guy's mind while he's making out?"

really depends on the guy. if he's looking for a relationship well, he's probably thinking this is nice. but i'm sure at some point some sexual thoughts crossed his mind. even the best of guys think that way. it's our nature. if he's just looking to get into your pants he's probably thinking along the lines of...it's just a matter of time now.