love = sex?

[GodsRose]

Illusional,are you willing to wait for?Keep laughing.

imo.. life is too short to wait.

raverboy

[GodsRose]

Illusional,why are you so negative?I would like to know what reality hit you?Are you selfish and are you just living for your flesh alone?Because if you don't have a personal relationship with God,than you have no understanding what faith is about.And you have no understanding what LuvisPower is facing.Just because you may not be living for God does not mean that waiting is a bad thing.Fools rush in.Are you a fool?I'd like some honest answers.Sincerely Rose

ahh the young dreamer... i used to be like that before, and then i got hit with reality.

raverboy

[GodsRose]

Of course its hard to wait,but if a relationship is going to last,a relationship should not be defined by having sex.Whats the point of having sex before marriage?If you do everything now,what do you have to look forward to?Marriage is about so much more than sex alone.Whatever happened to enjoying doing things together outside of the bedroom?Are some people cheap and just searching for whatever they can get?I love having boudaries and before I was a Christian I used to think that sex=love but I found out that was a lie.A real man would be willing to wait for me,because he should be waiting and not be in the relationship to just get sex.I don't want a man to use me for sex.I don't want to worry about getting pregnant or getting a disease.I want God to bless my marriage.I want a man to take me out and romance me with a walk on the beach and a great conversation. I want a man that loves the Lord more than He loves me.I want a man that has respect and honors me as me.I think that it just depends on the person and what they are living for.Everyones different,but I know that I am worth waiting for.After all I am GodsRose.Love should never be defined by having sex included.I do know for a fact that it makes a huge difference.I have dated and have had sex in a relationship with a man and it never made me happy.It made me feel empty and used.So many men just can't handle being in a pure relationship with the opposite sex,because they are just there to have sex.Women do it to guys to,so I am not picking on either sex.I have found that not having sex equals happiness and no more guilt.No more hurt,at least less of it.Now I can tell when a guy likes me when he is willing to wait for me,because he has Christ as the center of his life.Not waiting hurts and only adds so much unnessary drama.I am drama free and filled with Christs love and purity it what I strive for.

Honestly.. I think that it is very hard to wait. If you truely love her, then I think that you can, or at least would wait. But at the same time, you dont want the motivation to get married to be sex, you want it to be love. That is why I have never considered waiting until marriage, I want the person to love me through and through and I dont want them to be blinded by their need for sex. I know people who have waited and those who havent, I dont think it makes a difference.

[Illusional]

Illusional,why are you so negative?I would like to know what reality hit you?Are you selfish and are you just living for your flesh alone?Because if you don't have a personal relationship with God,than you have no understanding what faith is about.And you have no understanding what LuvisPower is facing.Just because you may not be living for God does not mean that waiting is a bad thing.Fools rush in.Are you a fool?I'd like some honest answers.Sincerely Rose

two things... first off, why do you quote everything seperately?? it's a bit annoying for the readers. and maybe seperate some of your thoughts instead of bunching them into one gigantic paragraph would make your replies easier to read and understand.

secondly, please don't ever talk to me about god again. you can preach here all you want, but i unlike you don't believe in god. i think that the galaxy was made by a super nova and then all the tiny tiny atoms joined together. also i don't believe in karma... life is just one big horseshit.

well i guess i'll put a thirdly in here too. actually i'm not filled with hate. i love myself, my family, my friends and just about everyone around me. i will probably never again believe in god. i won't go on and on here trying to change your views because frankly you can believe in whatever you want. in that sense, you should just accept me for who i am because i am nothing like you.

raverboy

[luvispower]

Godsrose sorry to disappoint u. i dont want sex anymore. i just want love, from the girl i love. im sorry to say God cant give me the same love, and everytime my gf broke up with me i will blame God. no more love.. haha..

[Illusional]

Godsrose sorry to disappoint u. i dont want sex anymore. i just want love, from the girl i love. im sorry to say God cant give me the same love, and everytime my gf broke up with me i will blame God. no more love.. haha..

that's another stupid answer... you probably are joking, but do you really think that blaming someone else for your heartbreak is mature? take it like a man and if this ex was a bitch, then just say f*ck her and move on. you don't need bitches like that in your life.

raverboy

[GodsRose]

Okay Illusional no problem.I'm not here to preach and I wasn't trying to bother you.Take Care and I wish you all of the best.

[GodsRose]

Luvispower,I'm done helping you.Take Care.

[Illusional]

Okay Illusional no problem.I'm not here to preach and I wasn't trying to bother you.Take Care and I wish you all of the best.

that's the thing, i don't mind you preaching and all, but remember that not everyone has the same beliefs as you. especially when it comes to religion, it's a very touchy matter. i'm a person that rarely ever gets mad, however, there are always others that take things in a different direction, just be aware of it.

raverboy