There are girls out there that seem to like me. Sometimes it baffles me sometimes because i dont consider myself good-looking (i have acne, and a skinny body). And its not personality, considering i never talked to these girls ever before. But i am afraid to make a move on them even though i am 90% sure they like me [some of them smile at me, i catch some looking at me in class which by the way i feel is because theyre disgusted by my acne].
The reason for this is, and im sure i am not the only guy, i have no self-confidence. I am self-conscious about my acne (for others it could be something else) and to say it controls my whole day everyday would be an understatement. I would like to ask them out feeling they would say yes, but i look past them saying yes. How am i going to take them out to dinner? Ill be too self-conscious about the people around me, I will find it hard to make eye contact with her. This wont make for a good relationship if i have no confidence in myself. I keep waiting for my acne to go away, but its clear its going to be here for a while, maybe my whole life. I have to learn to adjust with this flaw. But how?
As the title states, should a guy with low self-confidence and low-self esteem be in a relationship?