I have been chatting with a guy I met on a dating site for about a month. We have talked on the phone a few times and he's asked to get together a couple times.. but my schedule never allowed it. We might go out this weekend finally though.
He has asked me a few times for sexy/nude pics even though I keep telling him it's not my style. He gets kind of testy when I tell him this. He sent me a very sexy partially nude of him a while ago. I'm wondering if he is maybe what is known as a "collector"? Does that mean he prob has a bet with a friend as to who can get more nude pics?? Why does he want them so badly when I might meet him in person soon anyway??
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21-04-08, 11:55 PM #1
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Why does he do this?
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22-04-08, 12:03 AM #2
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Ugh. Don't meet this guy. He sounds like a skeeze. You can bet he's asking lots of other girls for nude photos. Eeeew.
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22-04-08, 12:45 AM #3
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I agree with giga. that is definitely not normal behavior. please don't meet him.
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22-04-08, 07:16 AM #4
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Yeh - Don't meet up with him - it's clear he is only after one thing.
And stop talking to him - he'll only keep asking you for nude pics of you so that he can go away and wank - and boast to his friends of how many girls he has on his contact list.
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22-04-08, 09:47 AM #5
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You haven't even met in person and he wants sexy pictures of you?
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Yup ... steer clear ... he's just trying to play the game ...no autographs, please!
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22-04-08, 12:03 PM #6
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dont listen to them, thats what those sites are for, have fun and meet him then you decide, the real mistake would be to not meet someone you think is sexy irl because people on a forum told you not too...
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22-04-08, 02:05 PM #7
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Well, she already said it ain't her style ... So, I'm guessing she'd want to go on a date with someone she might be able to click with better ...
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
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"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."
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22-04-08, 02:10 PM #8
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Dating sites are for you to meet people, I don't think they are up there for people to ask nude photos of others.
It's not a good idea to give someone a nude photo of yourself. It's too risky. You have no idea what he plans to do with it - with or without your face in it.Boredom sucks the colour out of you!
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22-04-08, 11:56 PM #9
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Tell him he can take the photos by himself when you finally get together. Next, keep your schedule very busy until he gets bored of you.
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24-04-08, 03:14 AM #10
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I really like this guy outside of this picture issue.
This was our latest emails
nice pics...was there supposed to be more in this second email? (I had accidentally sent him another email with no pics. the pics I sent were just headshots)
No. I just sent the email twice by accident. You want MORE pics??? What are you making a dart board?
No. I don't want more..I just got an email with nothing in it. I've already put your head on a naked body anyway, not to worry.
Hey that naked body could sue you for false representation if it wants to. Seriously fava beans.. why do you want more pics than what is already on my profile let alone the others I gave you? Is there a question of false advertising?
I repeat: I DO NOT want any more pics!
OK! No more pics fahw yoo!
well, by all means send something sexy if the mood strikes. but it won't
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24-04-08, 06:04 AM #11
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I still think it is weird for him to ask this. Normal guys wouldn't ask it. If you go out with him anyway, be warned.
Last edited by vashti; 25-04-08 at 09:45 PM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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25-04-08, 05:59 PM #12
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He pasted your face on a naked body?... :|
That's some weird shit.
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25-04-08, 11:42 PM #13
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I think he was just kidding.
