So to make a long story short i got dumped about 2 months ago for no reason other than he wasn't happy with how we were even tho he always wanted to be with me etc....it was unexpected and it hurt a lot. i've been slowly getting over him but am still having troubles. but i've accepted it will take me longer than i'd like.
i started a new job and started being attracted to one of my coworkers, he trained me to close and when i had to close alone one night he stopped in to see how i was doing and helped me out. he stopped in again anothe rnight i closed for a few min. we always have pretty good convo's, as good as one can have while working. i've heard from people he's a really nice guy and really amiable and a good friend to have. today though i saw him at another coworker's art show, this is how our convo went:
me - "did you get your papers done last night?"
him - "yea actually i did"
me - " that's good, how was getting drunk after that?"
him - "it was awesome, and i made out with this girl, it was great"
me - "haha oh sweet, well that's always a plus when you're drunk"
and then we talked abotu the art for a few min and then parted.
so it kinda dissapointed me...that he said that. but what was stranger was that he was SO nervous talking to me. i was liek ummm why do you seem nervous? and why did you just kinda of say that really blunt in a public place about makign out with some chick?
usually our convos are jsut us two alone whenever we worked or when i was closing and he's always really comfortale talking to me, but i've noticed that when a lot of people are around he'll get nervous talking to me.
does anyone know what this means? should i give up on this? not that iw as really that invested....but still. i think i shoudl stop liking him before it gets to late if there is no hope.