Is romance supposed to turn a guy on?

[Shizzizzle]

Apparently, this guy gets physically turned on (if you know what I mean) when he "feels loved".

This guy gets erect when he gets hugged, gets told how perfect he is for his girl, etc. It just happens when he feels deeply passionate and close to his partner.

Is this normal?

[Mish]

Not ussually, but stranger things have happened.

Maybe he never felt loved?

[vashti]

Don't all guys become erect when they hug a girl?

[Shizzizzle]

Well, this guy never felt much love from anyone else. When she talks about how much she loves him and loves being with him and says he's so sweet and stuff, he gets all happy.

Perhaps the emotion is causing his blood to rush? Apparently he's only physically turned on and when it happens he doesn't really crave sex the way he would if he was sexually turned on.

[GrkScorp]

Apparently, this guy gets physically turned on (if you know what I mean) when he "feels loved".

This guy gets erect when he gets hugged, gets told how perfect he is for his girl, etc. It just happens when he feels deeply passionate and close to his partner.

Is this normal?

Wtf? Guys have feelings? When did this happen?

Normal? Not really.. is there something "wrong" with it? Can't really say there is..

The hugging could just be attributed to excitement.., maybe it's his first girlfriend.., I once was friends with a guy who told us that he got hard from holding his first girlfriend's hand for the first time in a park.., whatever.., what can you do.., it happens I guess..

The feeling loved (non-physical contact) erection is normal.., again (wtf? sex is emotional for guys? aren't they just all some different animal? like a sex hungry dog or something? they have feelings? since when?).., yeah.., I think Tracey Cox said it best in both of her books (Hot Sex) & (Super Hot Sex).., "where the most basic way a guy knows how to express affection.., the "language" of his affection.., is through sex.., deep romantic feelings could boost up his sex drive more than any new sexy black dress could even dare to.., often times.., a fall in his desire for sex has little to do with personal appearance.., but with the relationship as a whole and how he feels towards you.."

Women have made me hard in all sorts of non-physical ways:

- Being competent flirts (Giga has managed to do this via online)
- Being assertive when needed.., and not allowing others to push them over
- Being aggressive and chasing after what they want
- Demonstrating that they know how to chase after what they want
- Demonstrating they are both socially intelligent and intellectual
- Showing their artistic & creative side
- Opening up and showing she's not afraid to show her emotional side
- Showing their caring & compassionate side (especially to family)
- Having interesting (factually interesting).., funny.., silly.., goofy stories
- When we conversationally click & connect (chemistry)
- Being comfortable enough to be themselves and show their silly & goofy side (shows me comfort.., trust.., connection)
- Showing tenderness & affection towards me and others (shows she would make a good mom)
- Showing genuine love towards me and others (shows she would make a good mom)

Beyond getting hard.., even if an actual errection doesn't take place.., there's this POWERFUL urge to just want to have sex with that person.., you can feel it take place inside of you.., it's a STRONG turn-on.., and when it's not just one thing happening.., but multiple things happening?.., she's getting it pretty bad when we're alone..

Is your "female friend" doing anything about this?

Best,

GrkScorp

[1averagejoe]

First girlfriend + hugs = slouched hugs and awkward walks

Or at least for me...

[lastwish]

Awwwww....thats the cutest thing that I have heard of.

[misombra]

Apparently, this guy gets physically turned on (if you know what I mean) when he "feels loved".

This guy gets erect when he gets hugged, gets told how perfect he is for his girl, etc. It just happens when he feels deeply passionate and close to his partner.

Is this normal?

i think it's good that he gets turned on by those kinds of things. there are worse things to get turned on over.

[GrkScorp]

i think it's good that he gets turned on by those kinds of things. there are worse things to get turned on over.

Yeah.., of the more bizzare things i've seen guys get turned-on by:

- Sh*t (yes.., seriously)
- Girls peeing
- Fat chicks
- Heels/Shoes (they can't get hard during sex unless the girl is wearing them)
- Girls eating (not in an erotic manner.., just eating.., lots of food)
- High-pitched child's voice

(Barf) Considering that.., that guy is well within the realm of normal..

Best,

GrkScorp

[squirrley]

Geezuz, lucky you! How old is he? Normal or not, that's really a great quality to have trust me. Some men need lots of visual, hell you dont even have to do a strip dance! Theres no work on your part but a hug? Kudos!

[IndiReloaded]

What? Is the poster a gal or guy?

What would you expect they get turned on by, if not love & romance?

What a strange question...

[Tone]

shh! I could use a hug.

[Tedel]

Don't all guys become erect when they hug a girl?

hahahahahaha...

[Gigabitch]

My boyfriend gets turned on when I tell him how wonderful he is.