no big deal..but it still hurts

[kivst]

yea hey, so this is probably one of the smallest and most stupid issue in most peoples eyes, and im just writing to get it out of me.

So this is how it is.
I went on a party a while ago (like a month or so), met a girl, started just small talk with her,kinda liked her owerall style=),but didnt have the guts to ask for her messenger ,
anyway, the day after she adds ME to her messenger.
She somehow manage to get it i gues.
we start to talk alot on messenger, she even throws in words like "cutie" and such (in a way that atleast i took like she really meaned it).
And i ofcourse is getting more and more feelings for her and starts to imaginate that she maybe likes me!
However, one day she just stop to write when i logged in,havent had the luck of talking to her sience then.
And like 2 days later she changes her screen name to, well "love stuff".
so i guess there meant for someone else...
I had plans to ask her if we could get together sometime next time i had a in real life convarsation with her, but now it feels like theres no real meaning in that..


well, and now im sitting here and realizing that I gotta take it easier with getting feelings for people.
So i guess,just drop it ?


thats my story, like it or not, I dont care.
I know it's silly And others got it WAY worse than me. but....still hurts

[vashti]

I don't get it. She didn't talk to you one day, and you are ready to throw in the towel?

Really?

[kivst]

2 or 3 , dont really remember

[Gigabitch]

I am also failing to see the problem here. Do you like her? Then tell her. Don't wait for her to do it.

[kivst]

yes i do , hmm ur right ! -_-

just gotta get a chance to meet her

[vashti]

Instead of relying on "chance", why don't you just call her and ask her if she wants to go out with you? That's the way men do it. You can practice so you are good at it by the time manhood rolls around. (I am assuming you are a teenager, right?)

[kivst]

yea, thats probably the best way to get to it! I will give it a try! yes i am

[Gigabitch]

Teenage girls are even more disgusted by weenie behavior than most adults. Man up and call her.

[kivst]

oh, okay !, im on it! just have to turn to day,kinda late now

[Cain]

Is that how it works now?

Guy: Hey there. You're looking good. Mind if I send you an IM?
Girl: like omg for sure... my screen name is gfsdfg34t4. IM ME cutie!

What happened to asking for phone numbers?

[WingsOfDarkness]

I'd almost rather just use IM Cain At least then you don't get those stupid texts all hours of the night and day!(Because now no one calls, they just text...)If they won't call to talk, I'd much rather use messenger than click on my phone's keypad for hours!Haha

[Cain]

I'd almost rather just use IM Cain At least then you don't get those stupid texts all hours of the night and day!(Because now no one calls, they just text...)If they won't call to talk, I'd much rather use messenger than click on my phone's keypad for hours!Haha

I'd much rather call than do either.

[WingsOfDarkness]

Yeah...But sadly, giving out my number usually results in getting texts...Call them, get texts instead of an answer...Can't stand'em!

Best of luck to you Kivst!

[Bennyzilla]

Man Up....That is all..

[1averagejoe]

I'd rather call than messenger. I rarely sign into messenger. I'd also rather text than message. Plus I just turn my phone on silent at night...I'm asleep don't bother me. Send me a text, I'll get back to you later. But I prefer text over all. But when it comes down to asking someone out, I'd never text them. Calling and talking shows them you've got balls to pick up the phone and ask them out.