Originally Posted by
Off2College
So I called my ex-gf today, after a year of isolation from her. She said she still had feelings for me, and I told her the same, that I think about her every night. I told her I could not look at another girl sexually, because all I would think about is her. She got really touched, and said she would meet me in my city this weekend, and she will "make it up for all my pains."
I'm off grabbing a pack of condoms... What should i do besides that? do I need lubrication? I'm a virgin...
Also, what are tips for setting up the night? Should I pull out a romance film or something?
I don't think the romance film is necessary ... Actually, I don't think you need to do much more than be yourself and hang out like normal. Don't make it such a dramatic event. You will be disappointed if you try too hard.
Lube or no lube? Hmmm ... You can get some just in case and ask her if she's a good self-luber. Basically, just talk to her and have her guide you and guide her back. And I'm sure you'll have plenty of chances to make up for whatever mishaps may occur!
Good luck!
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