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[Cain]

Am I the only one that thinks neither of the kisses should have happened? A boyfriend was mentioned and you never asked to see whether she did or didn't have one. In my opinion, that's very disrespectful to the boyfriend on both of your parts.

Regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, though, move on. She has said she isn't interested. In the future, you might want to clarify whether someone is taken. Don't just assume they won't let it go far if they are taken because that's not true. And if she had a boyfriend, which you heard, then you shouldn't have had hope. Think she was gonna leave her boyfriend for you? And what if she did? Think she won't leave you for someone else?

[IndiReloaded]

Don't spend your time wondering what is running through her head; it doesn't matter. For whatever reason, she isn't interested.

Sorry buddy, but you have to move on.

Regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, though, move on. She has said she isn't interested.

Anything else?

[twisted]

I don't really know what the problem could be on her part, but I think she kind of led you on. The most likely reasons however imo would be 1. you maybe came off too strong 2. she decided she wasn't interested after a couple of dates

[Journey]

Anything else?

Yah, I get it. I got it right away when she texed me..
But I wanted to try to understand. Thats why I posted this thread.

[Journey]

Am I the only one that thinks neither of the kisses should have happened? A boyfriend was mentioned and you never asked to see whether she did or didn't have one. In my opinion, that's very disrespectful to the boyfriend on both of your parts.

In the future, you might want to clarify whether someone is taken. And if she had a boyfriend, which you heard, then you shouldn't have had hope. Think she was gonna leave her boyfriend for you? And what if she did? Think she won't leave you for someone else?

Those are valuable insights. Thanks. I was just hoping she would be the one to bring up a boyfriend. She still has'nt clarified anything though. She did also say that she had issues, and maybe they are related to her boyfriend.

Maybe my looks and economic status play a role too. I used to model, I have a high paying job and drive a nice car. I live in a high-end neighborhood as well, which she knows, but has never seen my place. You will all say that doesnt matter etc., and I agree, but it might help to paint a picture?

[Journey]

Why does the reason matter? It doesn't change the end result.

No it does'nt - you're right. Its just because I don't want something like this happening again.

[misombra]

minds change. like the changing tides of the ocean.

you'll find someone journ. in exchange for all the nice advice i give you, and all the journey songs i sing to you, you should post a picture!

[Journey]

she probably has a boyfriend. but you're just so hot she couldn't resist.

what up journnnnnnnnn!

Hey Mis! Nice to hear from you again.
I might be able to find out if she has a boyfriend by asking one of the other friends with whom we went for a run the first time. That particular friend I know how to bump into again- I could ask at that time.

Also , are you serious about the "couldnt resist" comment? You are the first to suggest it. Maybe she realized that it could lead to something more serious and jeapardize her relationship with her boyfriend (which I dont know for sure even exists) - thats why she put on the brakes. But still, wanting to keep me as a friend - is that her way of keeping me as an insurance policy if things dont work out in her current relationship?

Or, did she just simply lose interest after a few dates as some here are suggesting? Are a few kisses enough to make up someones mind? She hasnt even seen my place, met any of my friends, seen a movie with me, had dinner at my place, done the nasty etc.