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    Heylo!

    Heya everyone!

    My name is Antonia, im 20 and from Australia.

    Reason i joined the forum is.. well, i was having a rough time with my boy.. wasnt anything too serious.. But i had some questions that needed answers.. so i was just reading around, and then got interested in other peoples situations. I found alot of people had similar problems that ive had in my past and present.

    So anyway, i really liked all the advice people were giving, and i thought i would try to join in and give some of my own advice.

    Anyways.. thats the best i can do with introducing myself.
    Ill just tell you guys about my relationship status.

    Im dating a 20 year old boy named Chris. We've only been dating for 4 months, but i love him to death. Ive never felt so strongly about someone before, and i have been in love twice before, and neither of them compare to what i have now.

    My first serious relationship lasted 2 years and it all turned to shit, and my second serious relationship only lasted 8months and he turned out to be a very needy boy and didnt give me my space.


    It's not all perfect, but i know that there is no such thing as perfect, and im happy with what i have now. I've never been happier =)

    Ok, so does that do? lol

    Ill start reading around abit more.

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    hello there little one.

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    Welcome to LF sexcbubz!

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    Hi there Antonia. Welcome to the forum!!

    It sucks doesn't it when relationship turned to shit after 2 years.. loved the way you put it!
    Boredom sucks the colour out of you!

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    Thanks for welcoming me =P

    Not really a fan of forums.. But some of them are worth joining.

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    Welcome to LF Antonia

    Sydney is the best
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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    Towards the sun, carry your name
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    Welcome to LF Antonia

    Sydney is the best
    Your argument has been irrevocably countered by the mere presence of...Melbourne! Oh yeah.

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    Huh... Queensland is the best, I have relatives there

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    I love Melbourne.... i relly do, people there are so much nicer... im gonna move there eventually...

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    Welcome! Long distance is always tough but if you two don't have a goal, the SAME goal in mind, you might just being going through the motions.
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    U mean my bf and I? Lol.. he knows i wanna move there, and he wouldnt mind coming with me.. but this isnt for a long while.. at least not for another year anyway =P

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    Moving to a new city means leaving behind your friends, your family, your work and everything else that keeps you bound to your city. You will be very vulnerable. All I have to say is be careful.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    Moving to a new city means leaving behind your friends, your family, your work and everything else that keeps you bound to your city. You will be very vulnerable. All I have to say is be careful.
    Yup and it's a HUGE decision to make so just make sure you are well prepared.

    I believe that if a person wants to move, she should move for the right reasons.

    I'm moving to another country - where my BF is - the reason I am going there is NOT because of him but the business opportunity there is very big especially in what I am planning to do. Even if it was because of him, I'd make sure I have made some friends, a job and place of my own cause you just never know the outcome.
    Boredom sucks the colour out of you!

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    oh i have friends there! and friends who can offer me a job, and my uncle lives down there, he would help me find a place there. And as for my friends in Sydney, they all know im planning to move eventually.. This has been my plan for years and years.. i lived in melbourne for a year when i was in primary school.. and i never wanted to leave! lol.. but yeah.. ive thought through it all. =)

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    It's shouldn't be a problem, if thing's go belly-up Sydney's not all that far away anyhow. Unless it's a "buy a new house and settle in" plan. I had never been to Australia and didn't know a single person when I got here a few months ago, and everything has worked out perfectly well.

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