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  1. 06-07-08, 07:31 PM #31
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pears View Post
    I never really understood why people need "safe-words" for saying no to sex. A few times in the past my boyfriend wouldn't stop when I said no. We had a talk and then he told me that we should make up a safeword if it bothered me, but I said that no means no and stop means stop. For some reason, he thought that during sex, no means yes and stop means keep going.
    Safe words are for the freaky S&M crowd. Come on, wouldn't it be kind of fun to pretend you don't want it. Have your boyfriend grab you one night, strip your clothes off while you struggle, and then screw you hard against the wall while you moan for him to stop.

    And then when he hits it just a little too hard you shout banana and give him a kick to the balls.
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  2. 06-07-08, 09:08 PM #32
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pears View Post
    I never really understood why people need "safe-words" for saying no to sex. A few times in the past my boyfriend wouldn't stop when I said no. We had a talk and then he told me that we should make up a safeword if it bothered me, but I said that no means no and stop means stop. For some reason, he thought that during sex, no means yes and stop means keep going.
    I agree with you. I guess I don't harbor any rape-fantasies.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteBall View Post
    I agree. As long as both partners are happy there is no 'norm'. Sometimes me and my ex would be at it every night of the week. At other times we could go weeks without. Either way we only did it when we both were in the mood.
    yeah.. it's funny because you quoted me and it seems like you didn't bother to actually get my point. the girl doesn't always want to have sex, yet her bf forcefully gets his.

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    I never understood the need for forcefull sex. Guilt tripping is a lot easier and much more effective

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    I guess I'm just a latent rapist or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    I guess I'm just a latent rapist or something.

    Good point. I guess I didn't think about him being interested in the rape fantasy...
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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