When To Ask Her

[3mK]

If all goes well, on the weekend of July 19th-20th I will be going to the movies (the Dark Knight!!) with this girl that I like.

Of course I don't know if we will be going together because I have yet to ask her to go. I decided to ask you guys how early in advance should I ask her?

I was thinking this upcoming Sunday. Give her a weeks head-up (or a week of how to say no). However, the anticipation of what her answer may be is building and I find myself thinking of asking earlier to get the it out of the way. That's why I'm posting for your advice. If it's a good idea then I'll do it early. If not... well I will bear with it.

The worst part about it is that because I don't see her anymore (used to be daily because of a working situation) the only way I can contact her is through Facebook messaging... but whatever. Doesn't change much.

[Cain]

I've never been fond of movie dates. However, in regards to your question, you need to ask her about a week before I'd say. Not too far out because she might not know what she's doing that weekend and not too close because she might already have plans.

[3mK]

Yea, about a week before. That's what I was thinking. I guess I'll just have to wait until the end of the week which is fine.

I wasen't too fond of the movie idea myself but I found out from her that she likes this kinda stuff so I thought 'why the hell not?'.
Plus, I figured because its opening weekend for the Batman movie we'll have to go some time in advance to get good tickets so that will give us a decent amount of time to chillout and do the getting to know each other better stuff. lol

[Cain]

I like dinner dates. Maybe you can go to a later showing and just get the tickets earlier... for example, go to a 9 or 10pm showing and get the tickets around 6... then just go to dinner before the movie.

[3mK]

YES! That is a great idea! I just really hope she is down for all this. I know I'd be one hell of a happy person if she was.
I've actually created like a rough copy of my message... I think it's kind of sad but atleast there is thought put into it. It sure assure me that I haven't missed anything that I've wanted to say when I do contact her...