1. do you mind if your partner isnt a virgin anymore?
2. will you askur your partner whether they have sex before?
3. Lets say you just started a relationship, if you are curious, will you ask? when will you ask?
1. do you mind if your partner isnt a virgin anymore?
2. will you askur your partner whether they have sex before?
3. Lets say you just started a relationship, if you are curious, will you ask? when will you ask?
1. No, I don't mind if my girl isn't a virgin anymore. In fact, my girl wasn't a virgin when I got with her.
2. Yes, I will. I am too opinionated to be with a girl if she's had too many sexual partners for her age. Promiscuity is not a turn on.
3. I will ask before it gets extremely serious, but it'll be brought up only when the conversation topic happens to go towards that direction. I'd never just bring it up out of nowhere.
1)No. I used to care when I first had a boyfriend. But he wasn't a virgin and I accepted it.
2)yes I would. Out of curiosity and plus I don't want someone who had too many partners...high chances of STD. EWW.
3)I would ask. I would ask after I got physical (like if I kissed them and want more). However I have asked someone right away after we agree to date each other. Very impulsive of me but it didn't scare him away.
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1. I'd prefer it!
2. Only if it came up. I lost my virginity fairly late, so honestly I assume the large percentage of people aren't virgins any more.
3. Again, only if it came up, which would hopefully be before we slept together. I'm not keen on knowing every detail of my new boyfriends past sex partners, personally!!
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1. No, in fact I'd prefer to know if they WERE a virgin.....because I wouldn't date a virgin. No good in bed.
2. No, because you can tell.
3. I don't ask....at my age, I assume they have had sex. If they haven't, I would expect them to tell me at some point before it got physical. I'd hate to find out in the middle of things.
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1.) depends
2.)yes
3.)when I feel it will offend her the least.
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Last edited by DoesntMatter; 15-07-08 at 06:58 AM.
I don't know if she is serious or not but 4 years ago when I first had sex I gave the girl 2 orgasms and she loved the sex. Bad sex comes from being nervous usually the first time, I don't really get nervous...blusummers assumptions are a bit wrong. Oh and some dudes can be shitty at sex FOREVER.
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
1. I do not care if they aren't a virgin. As long as they aren't sluts. An experienced woman is a plus.
2. Yes I will ask them, Eventually. It depends on how open you are with that person and how comfortable they are talking about it. If I sense some uncomfortably about the topic I will easily switch topics. Still I'll find out sooner or later. I try not to bring up past history with a person. Usually the past isn't that good.
3. I'd ask when we probably start getting much more physical.
I wouldn't ask her if she's had sex; I'd ask her if she has STDs or STIs!
True, some guys can be shitty at sex forever, but there's a much higher chance of it if they've never done it before, or have only done it a few times.
And OV, no offense, but when you're young and haven't been getting it on for years, it takes much less to get off. I remember the first time my first bf ever touched me, I got off in like two seconds. Now it takes like ten minutes or more.
PS: You young 'uns don't know what good sex is....it really does get better with age and experience. Much much better.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi