if you found a porn dvd what would you do..

[Cain]

I don't care how offensive, distasteful, threatening you found it, you have no right to smash it and throw it out. That's a very self-centered thing to do.

This is pretty much my point.

Shh!, though you might not want to have that conversation, her dad might not have cared. And if it was her brothers, I'm sure he wouldn't have cared. The point is, it wasn't hers to throw out.

[Aegis]

lol, somehow this is a non-issue to me...porn seems like contraband; leave it lying around and you can probably expect it to be discarded. I guess it doesn't make tossing it right, but I'd be like, "yeah, I probably shoulda put that away..." without a second thought.That you're posting about it implies it's not a frequent occurrence...so I doubt the owner really wanted anyone to know he (or maybe she, lol) possessed it.

[Cain]

lol, somehow this is a non-issue to me...porn seems like contraband; leave it lying around and you can probably expect it to be discarded. I guess it doesn't make tossing it right, but I'd be like, "yeah, I probably shoulda put that away..." without a second thought.

If it was something I didn't pay for, then sure, I won't care. But I don't care if it was a box of Q-Tips... if I paid for it, I expect it to stay mine and not go in the trash.

[Aegis]

Yeah, I can't really argue against that. I wonder how the owner does feel, lol.

[Cain]

Yeah, I can't really argue against that. I wonder how the owner does feel, lol.

I'm sure the owner won't find out. What's he gonna do?

*FAMILY MEETING*

"Ok, whose the wise ass that hid my porn??"

[Illusional]

what if that was a present for one of his friends?? you judged too quickly because if i were your bf, i would be mad that you didn't bother asking and you only assumed the worse.

raverboy

[shh!]

This is pretty much my point.

Shh!, though you might not want to have that conversation, her dad might not have cared. And if it was her brothers, I'm sure he wouldn't have cared.

Considering she comes from a pretty traditional Muslim family, and her brother is only 13 or 14, I doubt you are right about how okay they'd be with this conversation.

[IndiReloaded]

So, smashing & throwing away the DVD will make the issue go away, then?

She reacted b/c of her own discomfort, not b/c she made a decision it was the right thing to do. In that case, she should have probably held on to the DVD but hid it someplace. Tried to observe who the likely owner was & then deal with it.

[miSSleepy]

She said that if it was her boyfriend's they would have watched it together. So it's kind of hypocritical.

[PussyCatDoll]

She said that if it was her boyfriend's they would have watched it together. So it's kind of hypocritical.

because we would be married and hopefully have a healthy sex life.

it was hidden in a paper stack. i'm glad i found it, rather me then my little sister.

[miSSleepy]

It's amusing that people always assume that it must belong to a male
This paper stack... what do you mean by that? Where is this paper stack?

Not saying that whoever left it lying around (well, it may actually NOT have been just lying around) was very responsible.

[PussyCatDoll]

as in a stack of paper.

we have a computer/study/office room, for everyone to use. and when i lifted the stack of paper it was in there.

[shh!]

I think everyone is making a bigger deal about this than is necessary. Just forget about it and move on. If you find anything else like that again, just take it to your mom and say "look what I found while cleaning". Let it be her problem to decide how big a deal it is.

[Cain]

I think everyone is making a bigger deal about this than is necessary. Just forget about it and move on. If you find anything else like that again, just take it to your mom and say "look what I found while cleaning". Let it be her problem to decide how big a deal it is.

It's just disrespectful to throw away another person's shit. If it was my DVD, I'd be throwing away anything I saw of hers.

ESPECIALLY when I'm ready to beat it and can't find my damn DVD!

[shh!]

I think some of you people are a little too emotionally attached to your porn.