Aegis: So I merged these 'cause they're all the same thing, as far as I can tell.
Hi everyone,
I new on on-line anything but I hope I can draw both support and advice from all quarters as it relates to a situation i find myself in with a woman I care so muh for. She wants to end the relationship of 5-months abd obviously I want to continue on.
Candidly, I lied to her or rather put off telling her that I was laid of my job; I did not tell her immediately but I did tell her about a month after the fact. At the time I felt that I did not want to burden her with my issues, especially one so gut-wrenching. She is a single mom of 3 on a very tight budget and I did not want to feel like baggage and I was embarassed; looking back in hindsight I can see how unreasonable my logic but at the time it seemed te thing to do.
I can understand her to a certain degree but in my book this is a misdeanor not a felony; prior to this I have been nothing but honest and candid with her even to the point where she has a key to my place. In short I have nothing to hide and I also know woman are from venus and men are from mars but I'm struggling to understand her at this point and I want her back.
what say you?
Ladies,
I need your help to understand something here; I have been dating a wonderful woman for 5-months; the 2- of us hit it off immendiately and we have shared so much time together since we've been hooked up and things were just fantastic between us. Well, I got laid off about a month ago but I did not tell her immediately; I was embarassed about it and I did not want her to worry her or in my mind's thinking be burden in anyway;
Well, I told her and she said it freaked her out that I did not tell her sooner; truth is I did led her to believe I was working for the same company on at least 2-ocassions which was wrong to the core, admittedly. Since I have told her the full honest truth; although only 5-months with her this is the only incident and I really want to stay with her; she's wonderful and I believe we have great potential together.
what can I do?
Hello everyone,
so here goes; I met this terrific lady about 5-months ago; we haven't had any problems in the young but yet meaning full relationship (((so I thought) until a week ago. Before I can proceed I have to say that being with her, intimately and otherwise, has been like no one before her and I know she was feeling the same thing; there are certain feeling and emothions that people share togther that can't be faked.
So, about a month ago I was laid off my job (mortgage business, right?) and it really freaked me out. I wanted to tell her but I felt embarassed and ashamed and I truly did not want to worry her about my issues; she's a single mom of 3 with enough going on. So, I wanted to go in alone and not put more on her plate, initially.
On at least 2-ocassions she asked if I was still there and I was not honest about it; I just did not know how she would react; I was was so very wrong and boy do I ever regret it now.
Anyway, a week ago I told her about the lay-off and she said it freaked her out that I did not tell her sooner but I told her the truth in that I was embarassed and ashamed and did want her to worry about me; the lay off was tough emotionally because I have so many friends of 6-years I had to part with in addition to the grind of finding another job.
So she wants out of the relationship at this point; I know she still feels for me but trust is a huge issue for her; very much so. I know what I did was not right and will never again do this but I want her back so bad; I've lost sleep and my appetite over this.
I know part of her wants to shut it down but I cannot help feeling there's still a chance here; if I did not care so much for her I'd take a walk but this lady is so very special to me.
What's a man to do??