do anyone else think like this?

[jimbo fury]

ok so recently i've had my heart completely shattered....that's a different story. well anyway, i have horrible luck with relationships and ALWAYS get hurt so bad....and to be honest recently all i want is to find a hot sexy little girl and just do ALL the wild things i've ever imagined...no relationship i just want to be a whore and enjoy sex for a while...buy hey that'll never happen cuz if i can't get a girlfriend HOW am i gonna get laid lol....anyone else been hurt a lot and just wanna be a whore? cuz come on i'm tired of passing up sex with girls and waiting and waiting and just don't get laid hardly EVER...and i'm jealous of others and hateful cuz their all gettin sex and i'm not

[anachronistic]

Fleshlight.

[Aegis]

I skipped the wanting a girlfriend part and went straight for the wanting lots of sex stuff, but now that all my friends are getting older & married, I'm starting to think if I want someone to hangout with, it might have to be a gf.

But uhh...yeah, you're not alone. You sound kinda young though, so I'm thinking you've got time for all sorts of debauchery 'fore you need to concern yourself with relationships. ...if that's your cup of tea.

[Mish]

Getting lots of sex is the easy part. Just go out more, buy nice clothing, make yourself look good, start up conversations with random girls, this day and age it's really easy.

Once you jump in to that the question you will be asking yourself, is having lots of sex really all it's cracked up to be? And, what's the point?

[jimbo fury]

no i'm not THAT young lol. i'm 23 and deployed so yeah either way not gettin any sex or girlfriends over here. also i wont get out of the army til i'm 27 and lets face it at the rate i been deploying no girl will go through all that...girls just say u need to meet the right one and then they try to think they will wait then they break my heart. and no if sex was that easy to just dress nice and talk to girls lol....i'm a pretty good looking guy....nice body...dress well and i'm pretty social. then why do i get hardly any sex and usually none at all?

[shh!]

i'm a pretty good looking guy....nice body...dress well and i'm pretty social. then why do i get hardly any sex and usually none at all?

Probably because you are deployed with mostly males?

Anyway, it sounds like you have till now been looking primarily for girlfriend material. If all you want is sex, you will have to be looking for a different kind of girl. If you are looking, you'll find them (although maybe not while deployed).

Wear a condom though, and keep your mouth off their snatch.

[jimbo fury]

no i rarely got laid before i deployed. yes i always looked for a good girl because i've always wanted a serious relationship and i believe in love and all that happy horseshit...but i've also tried to get laid plenty of times during that whole process lol....didnt happen and i know i wont get laid over here lol....i wasnt referring to here...i meant while i'm in the states. its just kinda how i feel...i feel i'm missing out on sex. only had it 3 times so far and bout to be 24 and so on. i dont really wanna go for slutty girls or all that...i still want to be with someone but its just soooo hard for me to date a girl....especially a girl that wants a relationship and ya know likes me as well lol. i'm just saying...27 is pretty old and a whole LOT of lack of sex for 27 yrs of lifetime....its just not fair and i hate it...

[Aegis]

Well, if it's any consolation, you seem well-adjusted and by the time you do find someone, theoretically, due to differing "sexual-peaks" among the genders, she'll be hornier than you are.

[Citycat]

I didn't understand some things. Are you 24 or 27? Did you sleep with 3 women and complaining about the number of women you slept with, or you had only 3 intercourses so far?

[Cain]

Stop whining. You're depressive attitude is making me ill. I was in the Army and I know how easy it is to get sex when you carry yourself well, even though I never acted on the opportunities. I've always been into the relationship thing and regardless of how many failed relationships I've had, that will never change. I don't want a girl that's had an extraordinary number of partners so I can't be a hypocrite and do the same.

Anyways, if it's what you want, go for it. Sex isn't that hard to get unless you're the only one that thinks you're attractive.

[starbuck]

Isn't that the kind of sacrifice you knew you'd be making by joining the army?