Really bad fight. Dont know what to do or think.

[senya]

I need real advice about a really bad fight. I’m going to just give you the run through of me and my boyfriends fight.

The whole fight started out of me starting to tell my boyfriend he needs to really find a job and start doing stuff with his life. You see my boyfriend is 23 years old and we have been dating for 10 months. During the ten month period he has not had a job and went to Art school but dropped out because he got bronchitis. We seen to never go out on dates and I’m beginning to get really bored. When we started dated he promised me all these things like excitement and adventure. All I really want is a date here or their. He never want to hang out with anyone I know. I’m getting sick of being in his parents house in him room hour upon hour.

****THE FIGHT****

The whole fight started out of me starting to tell my boyfriend he needs to really find a job and start doing stuff with his life. He starts getting REALLY angry telling me he hears enough of it from his mom. He starts getting meaner and meaner.

I say “You need go to school or get a job start living life” He snaps at me and says “well at least I went to school” He College is sore subject to me because I cant afford it right now where he has his parents paying his every expense.

So I’m standing next to the door and I throw a brush across the room out of frustration. He screams slams the door which hits me hand and I fall and hit me head on the wall and scrap my arm up. I run out and he chases me getting angrier with me because I accuse him of hitting me. He never say sorry only gets more angry.

Me being REALLY hurt for the lack of care and compassion go into his room up to table full of figurines he paints and push them to the ground in doing so I accidentally get water on his computer. This is where he FLIPS. He starts screaming “Its over you b****, whor*, c*nt, ect. How stupid can you be? God your really fu*king stupid you stupid who*re. Its so over!” Then he smashes my cell phone.

I just want all this to go away. I feel so bad. I don’t know what to do.

[misombra]

run away.

fast.

[Citycat]

run away.

fast.

Definitely. And don't look back.

[lesa]

Run away fast and don't look back.

He will not change. His future with women will not be good.

[Cain]

No matter how angry I might have gotten with my gf, I'd NEVER call her a bitch, whore, or a cunt... (unless we were having sex :o)

You need to leave quickly. He doesn't have the motivation to work or go to school, so he's on the path to failure. Don't let him drag you there with him.

Where do you work?

Also, it was bad of you to smash his figurines and "accidentally" spill water on his computer. You should have taken the high road and just walked out.

[Mish]

I need real advice about a really bad fight. I’m going to just give you the run through of me and my boyfriends fight.

There is no doubt that you should let this guy go, your relationship with him sounds very unhealthy.

Though, after reading your other thread I'm concerned for your emotional security. Your situation (overall) sounds critical, you need a support group who can nurture you and help you. Especially in real life outside the forum. There are support groups everywhere, most likely even in your area, if I were you I would look them up and join them. They may not resolve your issues, but they will help you to heal your current feelings which I assume sometimes broder on extreme (justifiably). I prescribe an immediate contact with support group of people who can help you heal emotionally.

[Gigabitch]

He's a brick and you're drowning, slowly.

[Junket]

I think you have some emotional habits you need to break. Despite what's happened to you, you need to find something in you to fix. Why are there so many shitty people in your life? Ever wonder that? Is there something about you that attracts them? Find it, kill it. Avoid these shit heads and start moving forward in your life.

[bluesummer]

What on earth do you see in this guy?

Let him go.

[Charlie Boy II]

wow that sounds like a real hum dinger. You pushed over his figurines? hahaha.