er,won't he regard it as an intactness? it's a little beyond my comprehension that he doesn't feel lucky coz he's the first guy with her if he loves her and takes it as a ...BURDEN... wu,sorry, it reminds of chinese men. i guess most of them will go into ecstasy if their women are virgins.it's like animals' instincts of marking the territory. ursh, virgin fetish is still existing.(but it's much better)