I'm so confused...

[vetgirl2424]

I think I'll just go with most everyones' advice and not say it again for a long time. He can be the one to say it first in the future... He's a good man and I honestly believe he is "keeper" material...

[starbuck]

It slips out sometimes when we're feeling a rush of emotions. I said the L word to one of my exes for the first time during the last big blackout we had here in the city. It was a very draining day, physically and emotionally. We had been dating for about six months, but neither one of us had said it. I just looked at him that night and realized that if anything happened to him or me, I wanted to make sure I told him how I felt so I just kinda blurted it. He didn't say it back, but it didn't cause an issue.

Good luck with your relationship. It's new and exciting right now. I'd try to prolong that phase as much as possible before you get into the serious love stuff

[ecojeanne]

starbucks right everytime

[Lipp]

"I have a crush on you" doesn't sound as good, now does it?

[ecojeanne]

I think I must have caught what Cain had

sorry lesa, i kno i can be tough with the advice givers...........cain is another story altogether..lets see if he has the guts not to ignore me!

[miSSleepy]

ecojane, as much as you're expressing your opinions, so are others, Cain included. Some people tend to be fluffy, some just give the bare. You're not here to revamp people's attitudes.

[ecojeanne]

well missleepy someone who creates and thread called 'did i kill her' its not something i consider to be fun or nice...i will always stand up to brats and bullys!...

[miSSleepy]

Yeh, well, you don't call the shots on who's a brat or bully here just yet. Personally, I think the way you type is highly annoying, but that's your choice. "Did I Kill Her" is just a nonsense thread in the Off Topic forum, where nonsense threads go.

Before a mod tells me to stop hijacking the thread, I'm done. Sorry.

[ecojeanne]

everyone is entitled to their own opinion...so if i annoy u thats ur problem...i'm not the sitting on the fence kinda person... and i never said i called any shots....

[Cain]

well missleepy someone who creates and thread called 'did i kill her' its not something i consider to be fun or nice...i will always stand up to brats and bullys!...

You're still a twat.

[ecojeanne]

You're still a twat.

always as delightful as ever

[starbuck]

It is very true, those words can scare people away.

Even though a lot of times it's said not the right way. Lot involves emphasis.... there's a difference between staring someone deep in the eye and romatically saying I love you. And then whimsically saying it, much like someone would say "I love pizza".

I think I have loved pizza more than some of my boyfriends.

[Gribble]

When I was in high school I used to tell girls I loved them to get sex.

Nowadays the girls my age aren't so naive. I actually have to work for it.

[MzConfused]

You know what babe, I think some opinions in this forum haven't been positive ones.

*There's ways of giving positive critisism and there's ways of giving negative advice and I think although some opinions may have been what they feel is best, there's ways of saying it*

Back 2 You Babe, don't beat yourself up about it because at the end of the day, it's done. But I think, if he's still talking to you & is still being lovely, then I think he'll respect how you feel about him.

He probably knows you don't love him, love him but i think he knows your feeling him alot. There's nothing wrong with telling someone your feeling them whether it's after a day, a week, a month or a year, you know?

The reason he didn't give you an answer is probably because of your choice of words, but don't sweat it honey, because he'll give you an answer soon. He's a guy, they take a longgggggggggggg time

Be cool for now and show him you can be the right girl for him!

And i think your cool for telling him straight up how you feel.

Good Luck Suga.xxxxx

[lesa]

Babe, honey, suga?