he needs his friends more than me

[broken_heart86]

This is not a first time we have arguments about his friends (they are girls). My bf and I haven't talked for 3 days... His close friend and he have just rent a house. That guy is staying upstairs, he is downstairs. He knows that I do hate his friend's girlfriend (cause i know that girl for 2 years - she is absolutely a terrible girl. She uses her sweet voice, her weakness to "trap" men, she told everybody that:" my parents just want money so they arrange a wedding for me with a American vietnamese oversea, i don't want to so I have to run away by being with a foreign boyfriend". what a stupid one... I don't know what she said was right or not but since I know her, she has been being with too many guys). That girl comes to that house everyday, hangout and cooks with her bf and my man. Since then, my boyfriend doesn't usually come to my house to join meals with me or he just sometimes hangout with me in my house. Every time when i went there, he just wanted to go upstairs to hangout with them. Three of them just laughed, enjoyed the time being together and left me alone. He told me that he hates her too but what I saw was very different. He always smiles with her, has sweet stories to tell, even helps her cooking (we have been being together almost 2 years but he never ever helps me to cook even I begged him to do it with me but he did not). when I ask or say something about how bad she is, he always protects her, gets angry about me and he also has a lot of reasons to explain why she becomes like that. When I was hanging out with them, I so hated her that I could not say anything. I kept quiet all the time. My bf told me that he hates her too and what he acts just being social because we are in a same room and she is his best friend's gf. Then he told me that I should change my action to her and be mature. I like the guy who is staying with my bf too but it does not mean that I have to be nice, to lie myself to that terrible girl. We had an argument just because of that terrible girl! He is never on my side. I was very disappointed and cried a lot. Does that girl have my man indirectly? He always protects his friends (girls) with a thousand reasons, I am always wrong when I say sth to him about his friends. So which position I am in his heart? his friends (girls) and me, whom is more important? am i losing him just because of his friends? or everything just because I was too jealous of girls around him??

I do love him and I know he loves me too, but I can not live like this. Please help me, please give me some advices..

[ecojeanne]

well he's hardly going to humilate his friends gf to prove to u that he doesnt like her....

[shh!]

You are working this all wrong. If the three of them are cooking, you should go over and wait for dinner. Jealousy is very unattractive, and will only push your B/F into her arms.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Wasnt this thread up a couple hours ago with more replies? Or am I going crazy?

[Dasein]

Wasnt this thread up a couple hours ago with more replies? Or am I going crazy?

Yeah! I answered..

It is one of those annoying double posts in different sections.

Choose a section and stick to it.

[broken_heart86]

Thank you so much for your all advices. Now I know that all my reaction just pushed my bf away form me to that girl laughed at me more as a looser. Have to change my thinking... !!!