So Scared?

[dolphindelight]

Jerks like him, make me look so much better, even though I haven't
found her, I would never treat someone like he has.
Does this guy have any respect for others?
Did her looks make him leave you, or is it because he'll get
more sex with her? it seems very selfish on his part.

It wasn't her looks, it must of been the sex. I guess because I have good morals and values, and I dont want to sleep with someone if I feel like they might just leave, and I dont want to feel like im just being used for my body. Which was how he made me feel, when we were seeing each other that's all he wanted was sex. Then if he didnt get it, he would get mad and leave.

[lesa]

Wow you guys were together for a long time. He WILL not last long in that new relationship of his. I am quite sure in that. He was probably hoping that you would stay around just in case this new relationship doesn't last and that's why he gave you that marriage stuff.

[Asparagoose]

I guess because I have good morals and values, and I dont want to sleep with someone

I think this is why girls hate whores. How can you compete when there are other people out there willing to do everything and more?

This guy doesn't sound like he'll ever get married though. The best way to think about it is like he did you a favor. He gave you the chance to rid yourself of him for your life. Savor your blessing and try and find someone else.

[Kromat]

I think this is why girls hate whores. How can you compete
when there are other people out there willing to do everything and more?

This guy doesn't sound like he'll ever get married though. The best way to think about it is like he did you a favor.
He gave you the chance to rid yourself of him for your life. Savor your blessing and try and find someone else.

To waste 10 years of her life, when she could have made someone else happy that truly cared about her morals and personality.

I guess sometimes we drag on relationships, because we're used to the routine that we have with this
person, and we regret it later that it took this long for us to figure out that it wasn't going to work out.

I think that after 2-5 years, you should be able to tell, if you'll be with this person long-term, or else it's not worth it.

P.S. If you lose a job, then you start looking immediately for another one, you can't lose all your money in 1-2 months
that you've saved up over the last few years, there has to be a backup plan in case things like this happen.

[dolphindelight]

Now I'm just trying to enjoy my life. Well actually im trying to be happy so I could enjoy my life. Does this really get easier with time?

[starbuck]

It does get easier with time, Dolphin. It won't be overnight though, so you'll need to give yourself a break and let yourself be sad, angry, disappointed, all these things.

[dolphindelight]

Im listening to the album by nick lachey called whats left of me on youtube. It's a wonderful album. Tomorrow I think im going to go and buy the album, then just go for a long drive. Talked to him earlier and he tells me that there just best friends and theres nothing romantic. I've been by his side for 10 years and he tells me that after knowing this girl in person for 2 days, that shes now his best friend and im just a friend.

[1averagejoe]

Do not get back with this guy again, ever. He screwed up big time, And if you take him back you will just prove to him that he can get away with it again. And he will do it again. You need some time to repair and get over this. It's going to take a while but you need to.

[dolphindelight]

Dont worry im never getting back with him ever again. I agree with you, that I do need time to heal.