Will I see him again?

[Cassiopia]

Background:

I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. We have an undefined relationship..as in we hang out when we can and talk a few times per week sometimes more sometimes less. He lives an hour from me so it's not like I can just stop by his house whenever I want to... last time I was there I left my box set dvds..to which he said "oh well just get them next time, see you soon"

Since that time our communication has for the most part seemed its usual. I have not seen him in 3 weekends however for reasons of one or both of us being busy or out of town. Though we spoke a little bit on Sunday night via facebook, I called him yesterday and he didn't answer or return my call. And I texted him just something casual to which again he did not respond.

Normally in relationships I take the "whatever" route as in if someone seems to be getting flaky I just stop talking to them and things normally end that way. I do not want that this time. I feel I need to see him one more time to kind of leave things on my terms. It is something I have to do for myself and then I am confident I can walk away and cut off my contact (hopefully).

Do you think I will get to see him one more time on the next month?

P.s. To be honestly, please don't tell me not to care or if you see him again what's the point? There is a point to me because I am always the one that just walks away and never gets to say anything or ask any questions or anything like that. This is a step I feel I need to take and for me it's a big one.

[Cain]

You want to do the same thing I wanted to do when my ex and I broke up. Whether the visit did anything or not, I needed it to have closure. I never got it and I still don't have closure.

Unfortunately, it's up to him on whether it will happen or not. Maybe he doesn't want to fully end things but was just busy?