what does it mean?

[jfett85]

So I met this girl beginning of last week at my county fair and we ended up hanging out pretty much every day. After a couple days I worked up the courage to put my arm around and she didn't seem to mind at all. So I kept doing that, one day we were just hanging out in the camper watching tv and she was laying in my arms and it was great. The thing is, her parents are really strict and they didn't really like her being with me so it's gonna be tough to form a relationship (for me info see my topics in the dating section). Anyways, I kissed her a cpl times on the cheek, like from behind while I had my arms around her, but nothing on the lips. So, on the last day, it's time for me to leave, so I put my arms around and we hug and I move in to kiss her and she turns so I can only kiss her on the cheek again. I thought she liked me but now I'm second guessing. Is it just because of the tough situation - maybe she's afraid of getting hurt? You've always been pretty right before, so what do you guys think?

~JFett

[Ryans chick]

I know my one friend did that by total accident she thought that he was going to kiss her on the cheek and he wanted to kiss her n the lips but she turned her head. so since you have only kissed her on the cheek so far maybe she thought thats what you wanted I am not sure because i dont know her so maybe when you see her again try it and she what she does if she turns again she doesnt want to kiss you like that and that doesnt nessasarily mean she doesnt like you just she isnt ready (wait how old are you and how old is she?) that plays a big factor. well write back. hope I helped ya.
~Staci~

[jfett85]

I am 18 and she's 17.

I think what you said could definitely be a factor. I've also got my own theory. See, her parents are really strict and she's never been allowed to date anyone. They're actually pretty mad that she was hanging out with me. lol.

Btw, I kind of got confirmation that she likes me. I sent her flowers yesterday just to say hi and wish her good luck (she has a volleyball tournament this weekend). Talked to her last night and she said that she liked em and that it was "exciting". Her parents weren't very happy and she had to kind of hide them in her room, but at least I made her happy, right?

~JFett

[Fawn]

awww.. the flower idea was so sweet I do think she likes you, so no need to worry over that. She has a problem that I have; Parents are very strict. Luckily, mine gave in. lol.

If you both decide in starting a relationship, you'll have to be very patient. She might not be able to go certain places or she may have strict times to come home. But, you have to realise that her parents have a strict hold on her, and its hard to oppose parents that she loves and loves her. Overall its a waiting game, but take it slow and you'll discover the joys of a great girl.

[Ryans chick]

yeah the flower thing was cute I wana guy like you lol but your a lil old for me anywho lol.. yeah pretty much what fawn said about the parents thing like maybe stay at her house one time in the living room or something where they are there to watch you interact with each other then they will start to give her (and you) more freedom so just take it slow if you do start going out with her.

yeah i had a friend that got a flower for sweetest day (at school) and she had to take the tag of cuz it came from her bf but she knew it was from him and that was all that matterd and she loved it.
Hope it all works out keep us updated
Staci

[jfett85]

Here's one little update for you guys. I know now for a fact that she likes me and, apparently, talks about me quite a bit. lol. But, she's busy for a couple days so I won't be able to talk to her. I leave for college in a little over two weeks so I really hope I can see her again before then. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend and tell her that I'm willing to wait on her and not even think about going out with other girls but I'm not entirely sure how I'm going to do that yet. So if you've got any ideas I'm all ears.

You guys are great, thanks for all the encouragement.

~JFett

[Ryans chick]

thats good that she likes you then you know she will most likely say yes.you leave for college umm i dunno where in ohio do you live cuz i might know somewhere to go cuz i live in ohio too lol i not sure umm i will think about it and get back to ya.
You are more than welcome thats what we are here for here to help you out!
Staci

[French056]

What a good lover ! Nice idea with flowers. Next time give her a poem and a tulip ( i don't know the english word sorry : A red flower).

And hurry up because 2weeks is very short, don't loose times.

Or have some walk with her and try to hold her hands.

Or ask her directly.

Choose the best way for you