Originally Posted by
toto
I want to break it off with my girlfriend but want it to be a mutual decision....except she doesn't know it yet. What do I do.
Doing this "mutual decision" thing when it is clear that you are guilty and are the wrong person for her, would make you into a hypocrite and a coward.
You should come out and say that you are not right for her, that you have treated her unfairly in the past and you will continue to hurt her if this relationship continues. You are leaving because your conscience is tormenting you and you have to do the right thing by her and end this relationship. Then you should apologize to her.
I wouldn't recommend for you to do anything short of that.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~