Help!

[love_you]

hello everyone,
i have problem with my girlfriend and i will appriciate your help.
Well here is the story. Me and my girlfriend are about 1 year in relationship. The problem is in our sex life. I love sex i me and my girlfriend had it long time ago and i would like to have it again. but sometimes we dont want it in the same time, i mean for example i am tired or hungry, or she is tired or hungry...i always understand her but she doesnt understand me, she wants it when she is in the mood, and she kind of doesnt understand me why i cant have sex in that moment... she keeps asking me questions like am i attracted to her, do i like someone else, and she becomes sad or like a little bit angry. And ok than we get in bad situation. And every time i really want sex i am thinking; what if i do something wrong, if my penis go down will she be sad, angry and wont talk to me for about an hour, and again tell that story about am i attracted to her... The point is that she put the "fear of sex" in to me. what should i do not to think of what she will said, or how to prove that i do not want sex because i am tired? and not because am not attracted to her. i really love her.

Thanks.

[Mish]

Do it when she asks you to, simple as that. It doesn't have to involve penetration, you can do other things to satisfy her, just do it.