Need Advice, please help..

[rlui]

I met my gf like few months ago. And yes this is a long distance relationship to begin with. So recently, her emphisis on the 15", 18" dildos she uses when she cybers with me is really disturbing me. Basically I'm jealous of her pleasuring from those dildos. When I visit her again, she ask me to use them on her, but I'm having second thoughts of not fulfilling it. I mean, it's just my personality, I don't like the dildos cause it's like penises to me which is gay to me. I don't have anything against homosexuals, but I don't want any thought of it. Any good advice, cause it's eating me up these few days.

[Curlz]

A dildo is not 'gay' its a piece of plastic. She obviously likes toys and gets off on the thought of you using them to give her pleasure. Don't be so homophobic, especially over toys.

[rlui]

Well to me is gay, I can't stand it. Not only that, she uses it to substitute me when I don't satisfy her. Meaning she tend to like the dildos more than me at times, because they are much bigger than my penis being 15-18 inches.

[Curlz]

For ****s sakes man! They are not a real penis! If it troubles you so much maybe you could buy her a dildo that doesn't resemble a cock. And she doesn't like it more than you, can it hug her, kiss her, talk to her, etc. etc. etc. NO. She wants you to be involved in her fantasies. I bet that you have some fantasies that you would like her to actualise. You should be thrilled to have a girl as open to you as this, she's probably great in the sack. If for no other reason, do it to learn how to pleasure a woman (which, no offense, you might need a bit of help with). By the way, it's not what you've got, it's how you use it.

[rlui]

What I meant not satisfying her, is that I last too long with her when I have sex. She wants me to cum on her quicker since she cums early. I usually have a lot of energy cause im in pretty good shape. Im thinking of getting a vagina toy and let her use it on me. So it would even out.

[Curlz]

If that excites you, I say go for it. If you're taking a long time to cum, then she probably needs to get you more excited before intercourse. But anyway, you seem to have the right idea now, have fun.