Need Help!!!!!!!!

[morrison89]

Hello....OKK so this is the very much complicated situation...
I went out with this guy for almost two years....we were on and off until we both decided to break it off because it was becoming insane....It's been almost 6 months since we broke up and he is with someone new....but she lives in the UK and we both live in NY...and go to the same university....
Now...here is when it gets complicated....he has cheated on her, with me (something I am extremely not proud of, because I HATE cheating...) We have agreed on being friends (just friends, no benefits) BUYafter that we did sleep together....he told me that some of the old feelings are returning BUT he still sends love messages to his current gf....(we have a friend in common and she tells me that) He invited himself over to my apartment to watch a movie, but now he tells me he is bringing his best friend...I am extremely confused and do not know what to do or think...........what do you guys thinki this mean??
I am still not sure if I want something with him or just be friends with him with the "benefits" part...........

[Amena]

Hello Morrison,
In my opinion, the fact that he's bringing a friend over is either not to be tempted to get intimate with you (not to cheat on his gf) or maybe, hoping for a threesome...
Good luck!

[starbuck]

I actually think it might be best for you to cut contact with your ex for a while. It could be he's using you for sex while he continues his LDR. It doesn't sound like the FWB is going to make you happy, especially since you already said you weren't proud of the fact that he cheated with you. This situation will only cause more guilt for you IMO.

I say cut contact with him. It sounds like too much drama.