what does he mean??

[fallinginlove]

I have a friend,, you could say he is one of my close friends,, we're really close n he cares so much about me. We're really close and almost everyday we always have a conversation,, just the two of us,, but it'd changed. He began to get closer to my friends and make a distance between us. But he still keep in touch and send text messages everyday though. Sometimes he just like an angel,, really kind and help me a lot. But sometimes he just like a devil,, ignoring me a whole day. When I ask for help, he always there,, but the rumors say that he is the type of boy who is kind to every girl. He just knows how to treat a girl and sometimes the girl misunderstood it for something special. He keeps pushing me to find a girlfriend for him,, and it hurts a lot. But he rejects who I picked. But he has told me that when he loves someone, he'll do something really special for her,, and I haven't seen him do something like that to me. Also,, my friend,, a girl,, has asked him if he feels something special for me and the answer is nothing special. I don't know it's true or not,, but still... Finally,, my friend,,, a boy,, I just want to know boy's opinion. I asked him if 'the special boy' has a feeling towards me or not,, he said maybe just as a little sister. It really hurts me,, I don't want to accept it coz there are a lot of signs that he loves me,, but it's true there are also signs that he doesn't love me...

I really need boy's opinion for this... Does he love me or what???

[Gribble]

You're very young I assume. Young boys and girls are kind of dumb. No. I'd say he doesn't care about you now the way you care about him. He probably will in a few years. Once you've gone off to a different college or you're dating someone else. That's when he'll realize his mistake.

He's just a friend right now and he'll probably stay that way. If that hurts you, you need to consider distancing yourself from him.

[Pietomb]

I'd have to agree with Gribble. He probably just feels like you're a little sister to him, he cares about you but not in a way that makes you special to him in the way that he is to you. As it hurts you, you really need to try and not think of him as anything more than just a friend, try not to worry when he doesn't talk to you sometimes. And patience, for all you know he may come around eventually, but sod's law is that it'll be when you've lost interest. So the decision is yours, either let him go from your thoughts for now and not expect anything of him. Or you could confront him yourself, and just check with him what he thinks.

[fallinginlove]

thank you so much for the opinion,, well, I'll try to forget him.. but I'm not sure I can handle it soon..