Need some advice from a guy please

[irene]

I've been a dating a guy for almost 4 months. We see each other maybe 2-3 times a week and have always had a great time. We are both just interested in dating for the time being. I've been very careful not to be too pushy on when to get together - I kind of let him make the decisions because I don't to scare him off.
However, last week he hasn't called or e-mailed me at all. I finally broke down and called him just to see what was going on. He was very short on the phone with me - which never happened before. I of course, asked if everything was alright, and we had no idea what I was talking about. He then said see you later and hung up quick.
I'm so lost here - I could just die because I don't know what is happening. I know guys don't like to talk about their feelings so I don't want to press it but I can't stand not knowing what is going on. What should my next step be?

[snoz]

There's plenty of reasons but I don't think you should wait for this guy. Something may have come up in his life that he's not willing to share with you at the moment, I'm like that and yeah i know we're asses but we can't help it. Or perhaps because you've taken it slowly and now he's wondered off and met someone else.

Like you I can't stand not knowing so naturally I'll say just ask him again nicely what's happening between us, even if it's not the full story but just put it bluntly. Sometimes all we need us a little push.

[dave0087]

maybe you've done something that hurt him or changed his opinion of u maybe hes found out something about you... is he the very sensitive type who would just hurt inside and not tell you if he thought ure cheating on him or something... the best thing to do is just phone him and ask him straight if he doesnt know what you're talking about ask him direct question why he hasnt called whats changed

[JohnMichael21]

either an new girl is in the picture or he is the wrong guy for you!
Congrats on communicating with him. If he isn't willing too communicate with you and tell you what he is feeling then he dosnt have the caliber to date you.
Find a man who will communicate and value your thoughts and ideas. He will treasure you and leave games and "guy" thoughtless actions at the curb. He has to be Genuine and think of your needs first!
He is out there! Sometimes you just gota wait until he sweeps you off your feet.